A letter to Dear Prudence at Slate so outraged "Feminist Finance" that she morphed into advice-columnist mode and wrote her own response.
The letter went something like this: The writer, who called herself "Not Made of Money," generously buys clothes and toys for her niece and nephew with the caveat that she'll get them back to give to her own children, whenever she gets around to having some. Surprise of surprises, she's hardly gotten back a thing. In fact, she found out that her sister-in-law actually sells outgrown kids' clothes and uses the money to buy new ones. "How do I remind her that I want things returned, other than writing 'Aunty wants this' on each piece?" Not Made of Money asked.
Prudence, in her own response, wrote: "Regifting is a useful and economical practice, but you've taken it to a new level: ungifting."
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