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You want to buy that? She explains why you don’t

Posted Jun 15 2009, 07:26 PM by Karen Datko
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Sometimes you think you need to buy something because local custom or clever marketing has convinced you that you should. Or sometimes you don't realize that there's a cheaper, better DIY alternative.

Whatever it is, "Ms. Don't Buy It" can explain exactly why you don't need to spend money on that thing. Some of her observations are, for many, too-often-untapped common sense. Other posts at Don't Buy It are more groundbreaking. Among the things she says you don't need to buy are wedding rings.

The operative word here is "buy." After years of being ringless, she and he husband came up with creative alternatives, including making their own.

Now, let's consider a bread machine. We'd put this in her "simply superfluous" category, yet years ago she begged for one. "Turned out it only made lumpish squares that were only really nice when they were still hot, and those only if you bought the special overpriced mixes for it at the store," she writes. "I gave mine away."

Cheap alternative: No-knead bread, and she provides a recipe. (This also greatly reduces the need to buy bread at the store.)

Here are other samples of her arguments. Don't buy:

  • Housecleaning services. The cheap alternative she uses is the FlyLady system, although she finds the Web site a bit sexist: "She writes for what she calls Sidetracked Home Executives -- SHEs, get it? Har har har."
  • Laundry detergent (and other brand-name cleaning supplies). While our partner blogger Trent Hamm of The Simple Dollar prefers the liquid homemade kind, Ms. Don't Buy It makes a powder and, again, provides instructions.
  • Baby strollers. Unless you have more than one baby at home, she maintains, these are an absolute waste of money. Alternatives include the BabyBjörn carrier or homemade baby sling and those old standbys -- your shoulders and arms. She adds, "Once they get big enough to walk, they can walk. We were amazed at how far toddler Floppy could walk, and how perfectly calibrated his abilities were to our stamina."

We'll add another item to the list: a plastic arm you can buy to handle toilet paper -- at a distance. (We wish we could say we were making this up.) We saw a Brow Beat post about it at Slate and immediately thought that for most people, that's a solution looking for a problem.

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Comments

 

Yes, but for folks who need the TP-at-a-distance-plastic-arm, it's a necessity.  Items in this category are called "Durable Medical Equipment" and are often covered by insurance.  Disdain for people who need DME is called "ableism."

Oh, enough with the "isms." It seems as if hate doesn't exist in some category of person, someone will rush in to find some!

I personally love my bread maker, and use it on a weekly basis. I don't bake with it, though; I use it to make the dough. Frugal as I try to be, I'm just too tired and starving after my two jobs to whip up homemade Friday Night Pizza dough by hand (even with the cost of the bread maker, I've saved a ton over the months by assembling said pizzas instead of ordering delivery). Some things are just worth shelling out for to save some stress; like laundry detergent. I know I /could/ shop for special soaps and mix up a batch of powder, but the chore is time-consuming enough thanks to our clunky second-hand machines that can only handle half of a normal load at a time. If we were rich enough for me to be a homemaker, I'd be more than happy to try some of this "not buying."

I agree with Tamara that the breadmaker is great for mixing and rising dough. I use mine frequently on the dough cycle, to make rolls or pizza dough. I never use 'bread mix'. I use whole-grain flours bought at a bulk store, and adapted the recipes from a bread machine cookbook I borrowed at the public library. Delicious!

You don't have to *buy* one at retail... just look for them at yard sales or on Freecycle. The people who never use their bread machines are glad to get rid of them.

I can't live without my bread maker! (Well, I mean I COULD, but I really really like it.) Mine bakes fantastic bread, and I make mine from scratch; no mixes required. And not buying wedding rings? That's just cheap, not frugal.

I actually did not want to buy a ring while Hubby and I were planning our wedding, but he threw a fit about the ring exchange being a tradition in the ceremony.  So, to save money we bought a bridal set secondhand and sized the wedding band to fit him and the engagement ring to fit me.  Nobody knew that we had purchased the rings consignment, and we have cool matching rings!

As for the bread machine..........I still want one!

I always thought the pleasure in making bread was partly to do with the kneading. both for excersize and stress relief. I will probaly learn how starting this fall, right now I have a 30 x 30 garden taking up my free time.

I agree with the wedding rings- they are just not necessary!  My husband and I got married when I was in medical school and he was in college. We were both so poor! We got married in Vegas and our rings cost 30 dollars, and that was for BOTH!  But ten years later we are still wearing them and happily married.  Even though we make a lot more money than we did then, we haven't bought fancy rings.  No need for them!

But Katrina, you DID buy rings, right? Maybe not fancy ones, but you had rings for the ceremony. I think simple, inexpensive bands are perfect, and the tradition thing calls for rings. Congrats on ten years!

Titanium wedding bands are inexpensive, look nice, and last longer than most marriages.  Not buying wedding bands is SUPER CHEAP not frugal.

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