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Is extreme coupon shopping the new obsession?

Posted May 22 2009, 08:13 PM by Karen Datko
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We've thought that "buying" toothpaste, shampoo and other items for free is the hallmark of the very best shoppers -- the people who know how to maximize the use of those rebates, coupons and ExtraCare Bucks.

But have some people gone overboard? Are they filling their homes to the rafters with more toiletries, etc., than they could use in a lifetime? Has the thrill of the hunt in the "drugstore game" taken frugality's place as the goal?

"Coupon Artist" humorously alluded to this in her post called "Coupon Queen Quiz: Are you a true-blue coupon shopper?" (One of the signs she mentioned is that "somewhere in your house there is likely a room that resembles the back room at Costco, with paper towels to the ceiling and a tower of shampoo and toothpaste that you could use to build a small shelter to house a family of four, perhaps with a cough medicine pool in the backyard.")

But now we're seeing other indications that suggest the search for the ultimate bargain has become an obsession.

For instance, "Metromom" wrote at Frugal Dad, "Once you figure out the whole CVS thing, you will be saving money like it's a very addictive video game."

Blogger Rebecca Currie calls it "hyperactive tighwaddery," a play on Amy Dacyczyn's "active" and "passive" tightwaddery themes. This type of shopping makes sense, Rebecca says, if your large family needs all the things you buy or you're fine with having your home become a mini warehouse.

"Otherwise, I think it's not a great approach, because it keeps you firmly wedded to the consumer treadmill," she wrote at Less Is Enough. "There are so many things I'd rather spend my time doing than figuring out how to save money using coupons that I can't even begin to count them." This from a blogger who experimented with spending only $1 a day for food for an entire month (sans coupons).

"LAL" at Living Almost Large tends to agree. Doesn't this super-saving activity encourage people to buy and use more stuff than they otherwise would? That seems to be the antithesis of frugality.

LAL wonders, "Do coupons allow you to be a ‘spendthrift' instead of a true tightwad?"

What do you think? Are you married to someone for whom extreme coupon shopping has become an obsession?

If so, Steve, the husband of The Bargain Jargon blogger Christy, has some advice for you (tongue planted firmly in cheek, we hope) in a special post. He appreciates and admires the efforts of his wife, but says they do take some getting used to. In that post he writes:

For those who have just recently recognized that their beautiful bride has joined the growing ranks of the frugal fanatics (a term of endearment), I have decided to offer some FREE advice. (That last sentence alone, containing the word "FREE," has likely triggered the spidey senses of coupon sentinels the world over, who, in countless homes across America, stopped in mid-sentence, lifted their head ever so slightly and, while sniffing the air, whispered, "I sense the word ‘FREE' has been posted on the Internet. I must go investigate.")

Related reading:

She's spending $1 a day on food

Be a bargain-shopping champ

A fond farewell to Walgreens' EasySaver rebates

Comments

 

I don't think there is anything wrong with super shopping unless you get ridiculous about it and fill your house, as the author says. When I could get my favorite shampoo for 30 cents a bottle with coupons, I bought 12, because I know I will use it. I sometimes stock up on 3-4 packages of toilet paper. But I don't do this with everything, I don't obsess on it, and  there is no sense in keeping money tied up in a warehouse full of toiletries and/or groceries.  

Great article. Thanks!

I think it's typical to get obsessed with this kind of deal finding when you first get started, it happens when you start any new hobby like scrapbooking too. It's all you think about, you're always trying to figure out better ways, more more more. I think that you have to go through a bit of a learning curve to figure out what fits for your schedule, your home (storage), your family, etc. After a few months of being ridiculous with my super shopping, I figured out how much was enough for me--now I have a healthy balance of errands/shopping, clipping coupons, keeping on hand what my family uses, donating unneeded items to others, etc.    www.moneywisemoms.com

You can get additional savings by using online coupons for many retailers.

They also offer printable grocery coupons!

http://www.Swiva.com

I agree with Gina.  I went through an excessive phase when I first started couponing.  I spent tons of time on it.  The benefit was being able to share my stockpile with family and friends.  The downside was how many things in my life were put on hold for couponing.  

However, I've now gone in the completely opposite direction.  I'm really focusing on my family's health, and the highly processed, MSG and high fructose corn laden "food" you get with coupons isn't what I want to feed my family.  It's not frugal at all to sacrifice your health for free groceries that aren't real food.  You're asking for obesity, disease and very high future health costs with a diet like that.  I am working quickly to eliminate ALL processed food from our diets.  

Buy your food in bulk from local farmers, and you will save your health, save the earth, and contribute to your local economy.  

Initially, it's important to build that stock pile up because that is where the real savings begins. When you no longer have to run out and buy toothpaste at full price when your children announce at bedtime that they're out...you've arrived. :)

I did a very helpful "How to CVS" video when I first started. I chuckle at it now because it is so second nature, but the learning curve when one starts is pretty extensive. People have enjoyed being able to see a normal, non obsessive, frugal blogger explain it so their minds can rest on the reading part. :)

http://www.beautyandbedlam.com

Starlight makes an excellent point. I agree that most food coupons are for highly processed products which are unhealthy. It might save some money, but at a cost to our health.

I seldom use coupons, unless they are for an item which I would purchase anyway, even if a coupon was not available. I find that basic foods such as produce, bulk foods, and store-brand groceries are cheaper than major brands, without the effort of managing a collection of coupons.

I also liked Rebecca Currie's blog title, Less is Enough. 'Less is enough' sums up the point of this article very nicely.

You can get additional coupons via online like websites such as www.onlinestorecoupon.com

Coupons are great when used in moderation. They key is to match them up with items that are on sale. You can load up on crap you will never need or you can use coupons to minimize cost on the things you enjoy. Your not saving money if you buy something you will never use. If however you buy something that is a treat or a bonus for your family then you win by couponing.

The trick is to use the ECB's to get things "free" and then if I don't use that particular brand (i.e. Colgate toothpaste), then put it in the box at church for the needy or the box that collects items for our FABULOUS armed forces.  (I am earning less now because I am "temping" but I still want to and am able to donate things to those less fortunate.  I then just use the ECB's for what I was going to buy anyway.)

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