When money writers don’t walk the walk
Posted
Feb 09 2009, 08:19 PM
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Karen Datko
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"Moneymonk" sees a bit of hypocrisy in the financial wisdom offered by some better-known gurus. "Live below your means and throw all your money into the stock market for 30 years and never touch it. Blah blah" is how she sums up their advice.
Suze Orman and Dave Ramsey aren't counting on 401(k)s or IRAs to build wealth, Moneymonk says in a post called "Personal-finance gurus, I'm getting tired of your advice."
Taking shots at the big PF writers isn't new. But recently Ben Stein drew some serious heat. Hannah at Monogamoney noticed that Stein also hasn't been true to his own advice.
Ben, in a recent column in The New York Times, wrote about the advice he wants to give to his son:
"Do not act like typical Americans. Do not fail to save. Do not get yourself in debt up to your eyeballs. Work and take pride and honor from your work. Learn a useful skill that Americans really need, like law or plumbing or medicine or nursing. Do not expect your old Ma and Pa to always be there to take care of you."
Yet he admits that his 21-year-old son is far from self-sufficient -- and apparently has never met a restaurant that's too expensive for his tastes -- for which Ben, who is wealthy and supports his son and the son's new wife, accepts responsibility.
Some critics aimed and fired. "Actually, Ben, that is your fault, completely," Felix Salmon wrote in a post at Portfolio.com. "... As a general rule, unemployed 21-year-olds do not believe that they can eat at any restaurant they like."
"Hilzoy" wrote at Obsidian Wings, "If I were Ben Stein, I think I'd revisit the nature of my support for my son. If the idea that he might not be able to eat out wherever he wants anytime is alien to him, he either has very, very, very simple tastes or is getting way too much money. That should stop."
Hannah took a much more thoughtful approach to Ben's words. She, like Ben in an earlier life, used to be very frugal before lifestyle inflation took hold. She wondered how she could carry forward the lessons she learned from her more-frugal youth, how she could be not like Ben. Here are her thoughts:
- Acknowledge that it is very difficult to be frugal when you don't have to be. That sounds like a good start.
- Even if you're not frugal on a daily basis, keep the big expenses like housing and car payments low.
- Make your kids get a job so they learn the value of work.
As for Suze and Dave, blogger Moneymonk says neither got rich by putting money in a 401(k) or IRA. She adds, "Do what personal-finance gurus do, and not say."
Related reading:
How to beat lifestyle inflation (and boost savings)
Earning more without burning more
Getting off the spending treadmill
She's not a fan of Dave and the debt snowball