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Are you earning less because you're overweight?

Posted Nov 26 2008, 06:34 PM by Karen Datko
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"Weetabix" asked herself a question that many other workers might wonder about: Is she earning less and being overlooked for promotion because she's overweight?

In an Elastic Waist post called "Can your weight affect your paycheck?" she says her slimmer female co-workers seem to get better treatment. "When you think about ladies of size in your place of employment, are they on the skinny or the fat part of the org chart?" she asks.

A related question is: Does society's preoccupation with thin wear down larger women's self-esteem, causing them to be less confident and less aggressive in furthering their careers?

We suspect that overweight men could ask the same questions, but it seems to us that large women are more often ridiculed or misjudged. A story in the Daily Mail quoted by Weetabix supports this. Referring to a recent U.S. study, it says:

Obese men suffered more than their slim counterparts but the difference was not as great as for overweight women. The researchers said the women seemed to suffer particularly at work where they felt more discriminated against than their overweight male colleagues.

In fact, the story said, overweight women are more likely than others to get fired or laid off.

Weetabix also quotes Steph at Back in Skinny Jeans, who wrote about her former high-powered marketing job in Silicon Valley. Everyone was expected to cultivate a "personal brand," Steph said. For women, she added, "a major part of your personal brand at work is your looks. Yeah, yeah, talent does matter, but it has been proven that better-looking people get bigger pay checks, faster traction up the ladder, better opportunities, and first dibs on all the good stuff."

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It definitely seems like the more attractive people at work get better treatment.  It's also rare to see a totally hideous looking CEO.  Most of the time it's a sleek, distinguished man in his 40s to 60s.  

In a perfect world we would all be treated as equals, but this is an imperfect one... so alas...

Personally I notice a huge different in treatment depending on my look on a particular day.  If I go into a nice store dressed in sweatpants and no makeup I'm ignored.  Little do store clerks realize that the rich often dress modestly.

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So much is in the way you carry yourself....If you are confident, well-dressed, well-groomed, smile and you know what you are doing and willing to go the extra mile then you'll get ahead.  I work with a very heavy lady who looks absolutely GORGEOUS and her career reflects that.  Nice outfits, hair and nails done, conservative makeup, nice cologne--not marinade.  Just because you're heavy doesn't give you the excuse to dress like a slob and neglect your personal hygiene.  You're just not taken seriously if you don't put forth the effort, and folks DO notice...  just this past year one of our new-hire engineers got a serious wake-up call...he was what we called in the military a "duffle bag"--not shaved, wrinkled shirts and pants with holes in them, bad BO, you name it--he was a slob.  Plus more than a little on the Pilsbury Dough-boy side.  Each day a thousand excuses why he was a mess.  We were discussing projects with another group one day and one of the senior engineers in the other department  caught his name.  "Oh, so and so is an engineer??  We all thought he was your summer-hire.."  Ouch....no wonder he ever got any cooperation with his projects...no one took him seriously.  He eventually got fired ...

Maria...I agree 100%.  I have seen overweight men and women who are liked and respected in the workplace.  Why?  Because they have a good attitude and they dress appropriately for their body type, but still look presentable.  

If you walk around looking dumpy and ticked off and unhappy, people will ignore you.  There will always be those who use their good looks to get ahead in the workplace.  However, there are always those people who earn respect regardless of their body type.  

This is by far the most ridiculous thing I've ever read in my life.

next they will say that fat people date less and are more prone to heart attack, who could have imagined.  

Smaller women do get treated different in the workplace as well as life in general. But attitude and presentation make a HUGE difference. Most heavy people lack self esteem, but the ones who overcome, are the ones who will succeed. So if you are over weight and reading this, look in the mirror and ask "Would I hire me?" If not, fix what you see and it will happen for you. It is possible.

Of course better looking people get further in business, that's life! Get over it and do something about yourselves besides just complaining!!

What I found is some companies that require a uniform, so so in a way that makes fat look worse.  Like a tucked in polo shirt and Polyester pants.  a fat woman with a tucked in shirt looks worse than a fat man.  also a woman that wants to hide the bulging waist big derrieer would be more comfortable in an untucked shirt.  Truthfully so would everyone else.  And when there is no uniform, It is so hard not to fall in the 6 dollar walmart t-shirt trend.  It is a huge effort in rural areas to get large size dress clothes.  Stores don't carry a large selection of them so you end up dressing like your neighbor if you don't go on line.  Then there is the fact no one really has a clue how to dress to look like success when the weigh more than 200 lbs, unless they are taught.  It is darn hard to find sources to teach you.

My son an engineer was told he'll never get promoted unless he has gastic bypass

hey good looking guy,

it is so easy for you to not look thru others eyes.  You need to change you screen name to sourman.

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