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What to do if the economy knocks you down

Posted Oct 08 2008, 04:35 PM by Karen Datko
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Many of you are wondering when the huge wave of economic woes will come crashing down on your head. For some of you, it already has.  

I crossed a financial minefield of my own in recent years -- sudden unemployment followed by working for near minimum wage -- and I'm prepared to do it again if I have to. Hopefully what I learned about getting by in difficult times can help you too.

My story in brief: I lost a great job I had thought I'd enjoy for life when the ownership of my company changed. After six months of searching, I found a comparable job on the other side of the country. I lost that one too, sold off most of my things, and drove home with my computer, some clothes, a few dishes, keepsakes, and my three dogs.

It was time to get real. I could try to find another job in the shrinking newspaper industry or stay at home and try to rebuild from there. While I mulled the possibilities, I took steps to make sure my finances didn't backslide.

I started to make money. Good jobs are hard to come by here, so I got part-time work that paid $6.50 an hour.

I looked for additional income. I hatched the idea to start a pet-sitting business.

I severely limited my spending so that I could live within my means. That means taking care of needs -- mortgage, utilities, telephone, vehicle expenses, Internet access and food. I bought nothing unless I absolutely needed it. It helped my resolve to think about how many hours of work any purchase would cost.

I learned frugal hacks, like reusing plastic bags and stretching shampoo. (I've learned tons more -- like the many uses for vinegar -- since I've started blogging here at Smart Spending.) I set my programmable thermostat at 63 degrees and, weather permitting, stopped using my clothes dryer.

I donated my free time. Helping others is a good way not to focus on oneself. I increased my volunteer hours at the local soup kitchen and joined other community projects. (Incidentally, these sometimes have the added benefit of free meals.)

I also decided I would not harm my future. While I didn't have extra income to save for retirement, I also didn't withdraw from my retirement accounts. What sense would it have made to reduce my future security in order to maintain a lifestyle I really didn't need?

I'm here to tell you that my blogging partner, Donna Freedman, was right when she wrote that life can get better if you're open to new possibilities. I made it through (although I sometimes look back and wonder where I found the grit). I'm doing what I love -- and make a decent income -- writing and editing at home.

But just like everyone else, I'm worried about the future. Many people won't be immune from the fallout as the U.S. succumbs to what's likely to be a deep recession.

I'm worried, but I've also learned that I can take care of myself. I have no debt, other than my mortgage, and I don't buy anything unless I have the money to pay for it. I continue to live a frugal life. I know that I can make do with very little and that many of the things that make me happy -- friendships, crisp autumn mornings, rooting for my favorite football team -- don't cost anything.

Other things I know:

    • An emergency fund is essential. In these tough times, I plan to build mine to cover necessary expenses for two years.

    • You can create opportunities to make extra income. I'm still pet sitting, and I've learned about lots of other ways to increase my earnings if I need to.

    • I'm easily -- and cheaply -- entertained. Who needs to pay for TV? You can find plenty of free entertainment on National Public Radio -- or watch TV online for free.

    • You can eat on $25 or so a week. That means buying and cooking in bulk and seeing food as fuel. In better times, it can again become a regular source of entertainment and pleasure.

    • Help is available. In addition to the soup kitchen and a food bank, my community has a health care clinic for low-income people.

     

    Another thing I know: There's no sense hiding your situation from others. How often do we hear about people who max out their credit cards to maintain the illusion that they're still doing well? When times are tough, people you know -- and even some you don't -- will arrive at your door to help you when you least expect it.

    Do you have a story to share? What other ideas can you add to the mix?

    Comments

     

    Great Advice!  Really makes me feel better.  I know times are tough for all.  My husband just started a new job making more money finally and it has helped.  Still adjusting but I know we can make it through together.    

    Karen I lost my $40,000 a month job and realized I really needed to cut down. I really never kept my head above water back then even when my income was steller. Life was maxed out from the moment I woke up til the moment I went to bed. I needed to lower my standard of living immediately as I knew I was in for a shock. Being single I didn't feel that anybody but myself and the banks was going to be hurt. I immediately kicked out the strippers from every room in the house that over time I had invited them to stay with me one by one as freinds. Gave 7 cars back to bank and one very nice home. Now I have learned to rent, love nature, state parks, go canoeing etc. Also went to kmart for the first time and found a Philips digital arial for $20 buck which is in HD and found myself watching sermons on the 6 or so religious channels for free every night. Yes I was forced to trade in a miserable high paying job for GOD. Now I don't care what happens and sleep peacefully at night. "God clothes and feeds the birds doesn't he"

    Oh PLEASE...what drivel.....you did not tap into your retirement account?  If you had really hit bottom, that would be long gone....please do not wax poetic about helping out at the soup kitchen....you romantize things beyond your comfort zone...and by the way NPR is not FREE.  Become a member....it's obvious we can all live more frugal and less indulgent lives....but don't start wining..when so many are on the streets without any hope of having what you do.

    Donate something to your local farmer....and stay out of Walmart!!!

    shop at walmart and support the chinese economy..........................

    I hear so many stories like these today, mine included. My second tier job after two layoffs from six figure jobs paid $30k per year. After reading your story, I'm feeling a bit guilty that I was dissapointed to only be making that. At first, these stories of setbacks and reality checks sound sad. But, then I realize it's people like you and me who live through them that really are the strenth and foundation of this country. Not the kingpins making tens of millions a year, nor those in power who keep trying to make our decisions for us. Learning to live your life at a level so that no matter what happens you have the ability to survive on your own; that's the best kind of freedom.

    I would like to commend you all for getting back to basics. I follow a few basic rules - I do not use the house as an ATM, I put the max into my 401k, I have a "rainy day" fund. do not pay interest on credit cards. The bottom line - if I don't have the money I am not entitled to spend it .

    We eat well - at home with steak bought on special at Fry's with good wine (again purchased on special) and I don't have to dress up or pay 15% service.

    I brown bag it to work ( more fruit and less cost) (although sometimes a pain making it in the evening), and mow my own lawn and can park two cars in the garage (how un-American).

    Every little bit you save helps but it helps more if you don't spend -you have to earn $140 to spend $100 at a restaurant. Washing the car yourself saves $20 or $30 before taxes.

    And kids need parents rather than stuff.

    Looks to me as if you folks realise that living simply is where the American dream needs to go to.

    Hey Karen!  Me too!  I had a job I thought was my last job but due to a management change, I'm out and good riddance to bad rubbish.  But... walking away from $39K or less (what originally started out as $53K per year - sales, ya know? :) and a few other awful jobs put me on "hiatus" for a few weeks until I pick up the thread of my sales career.  So I've finished my novel and am living my dream!  Querying agents, getting deep into the rewrite (that IS my job now).  Who knows what will happen?  Who cares?  All I know is that right now I am living my dream and will not go into the night wondering "What if..."  ...and you are absolutely right about the public library!

    Great advice for those who do not have any health issues. I don't have a job (job was eliminated), I was in car accident 1 month before job was eliminated. Had Cobra for a shorttime but had to let it go because it was so expensive and my son needs to eat. So, I applied for State insurance for my son buI don't gave any health insurance. I remember a time when I too would take a low paying job, but most require long hours on your feet or lifting or stooping or something tha my body cannot handle right now due to my injuries. I have been looking for a job ever since the accident as I know my finances are in the toliet. I know how to spend wisely only reason I have lasted this long. However, there are no programs, that I am eligible for that would pay my rent which is excessively hight as I live in the NE.  The only option I have is to get another job that may pay less but has to be something that I can do while sitting down.  I am considering selling my possesions and just moving into boarding hourse somewhere but that would mean snatching my son--who has tourettes and is in the special needs  placement at the school he attends, out of school. How do I become a blogger. I have a MPA, have done some creative writing, and have a real flair for research.  BTW I am open to suggestions from any and all of you.  I

    The financial mess in the US is affecting every economy in the world and as a resident of India we have seen our stock markets crash by over 50% since the beginning of the year. In our country, we are also apprehensive that the explosive growth clocked over the last few years will be over soon and we are in for troubled times. This article is a timely reminder to us to look at life from a different perspective than what we have been accustomed to in recent years - easy credit, unbridled consumerism and an arrogant attitude that everything will be fine in future. The tide is turning and we have to get back to our parents' ideology - a penny saved is more than a penny earned.

    People talk about a recession...but all I see is gas prices going down. I'm tired of going to work and hearing people talk about all of their financial problems... if you were that CLOSE to retirement you wouldn't have had your money in the market. Meanwhile I will continue to live in my 287 square foot studio apartment driving a 2002 ford focus that has been long since paid for. Love to hear all of the other sane people who live within their means around here. It is refreshing

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