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What to do if the economy knocks you down

Posted Oct 08 2008, 04:35 PM by Karen Datko
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Many of you are wondering when the huge wave of economic woes will come crashing down on your head. For some of you, it already has.  

I crossed a financial minefield of my own in recent years -- sudden unemployment followed by working for near minimum wage -- and I'm prepared to do it again if I have to. Hopefully what I learned about getting by in difficult times can help you too.

My story in brief: I lost a great job I had thought I'd enjoy for life when the ownership of my company changed. After six months of searching, I found a comparable job on the other side of the country. I lost that one too, sold off most of my things, and drove home with my computer, some clothes, a few dishes, keepsakes, and my three dogs.

It was time to get real. I could try to find another job in the shrinking newspaper industry or stay at home and try to rebuild from there. While I mulled the possibilities, I took steps to make sure my finances didn't backslide.

I started to make money. Good jobs are hard to come by here, so I got part-time work that paid $6.50 an hour.

I looked for additional income. I hatched the idea to start a pet-sitting business.

I severely limited my spending so that I could live within my means. That means taking care of needs -- mortgage, utilities, telephone, vehicle expenses, Internet access and food. I bought nothing unless I absolutely needed it. It helped my resolve to think about how many hours of work any purchase would cost.

I learned frugal hacks, like reusing plastic bags and stretching shampoo. (I've learned tons more -- like the many uses for vinegar -- since I've started blogging here at Smart Spending.) I set my programmable thermostat at 63 degrees and, weather permitting, stopped using my clothes dryer.

I donated my free time. Helping others is a good way not to focus on oneself. I increased my volunteer hours at the local soup kitchen and joined other community projects. (Incidentally, these sometimes have the added benefit of free meals.)

I also decided I would not harm my future. While I didn't have extra income to save for retirement, I also didn't withdraw from my retirement accounts. What sense would it have made to reduce my future security in order to maintain a lifestyle I really didn't need?

I'm here to tell you that my blogging partner, Donna Freedman, was right when she wrote that life can get better if you're open to new possibilities. I made it through (although I sometimes look back and wonder where I found the grit). I'm doing what I love -- and make a decent income -- writing and editing at home.

But just like everyone else, I'm worried about the future. Many people won't be immune from the fallout as the U.S. succumbs to what's likely to be a deep recession.

I'm worried, but I've also learned that I can take care of myself. I have no debt, other than my mortgage, and I don't buy anything unless I have the money to pay for it. I continue to live a frugal life. I know that I can make do with very little and that many of the things that make me happy -- friendships, crisp autumn mornings, rooting for my favorite football team -- don't cost anything.

Other things I know:

    • An emergency fund is essential. In these tough times, I plan to build mine to cover necessary expenses for two years.

    • You can create opportunities to make extra income. I'm still pet sitting, and I've learned about lots of other ways to increase my earnings if I need to.

    • I'm easily -- and cheaply -- entertained. Who needs to pay for TV? You can find plenty of free entertainment on National Public Radio -- or watch TV online for free.

    • You can eat on $25 or so a week. That means buying and cooking in bulk and seeing food as fuel. In better times, it can again become a regular source of entertainment and pleasure.

    • Help is available. In addition to the soup kitchen and a food bank, my community has a health care clinic for low-income people.

     

    Another thing I know: There's no sense hiding your situation from others. How often do we hear about people who max out their credit cards to maintain the illusion that they're still doing well? When times are tough, people you know -- and even some you don't -- will arrive at your door to help you when you least expect it.

    Do you have a story to share? What other ideas can you add to the mix?

    Comments

     

    That's just an outstanding piece of common sense.  And yet, as common sensical as it is, many are unable to think this way.  I too find myself in a bit of a bind right now, having been there once before...of course my situation now is a bit more difficult with 4 children to take care of.  In any event, I too know I can make it and I appreciate hearing your story.  It built me up!

    Tony

    Good stuff! You can definitely eat for $25 or less a week, which is something so many people seem astonished by.  Even my 6ft1, 175lb bf eats on $80-100 of grocery money per month by cooking at home and buying bulk or seasonal foods (we do not live together).  I also know about sucking it up and working for minimum wage.  People are always amazed because at my other job, I make a middle class income.  I just tell them that my minimum wage job is what allows me to pay off the line of credit that much sooner.  -CF

    The previous 2001 - 2003 recession left me jobless for 19 months for the first time in my 30 year career, and it devistated me at the onset. However, it amazed me how quickly I was able to adapt to this new era of my life. I adopted many of the frugal habits that Karen Datko lists, and not only survived, but thrived. During those 19 months, I completed the BS degree that I had been chipping away at part time for years, I worked odd jobs not caring what the income was as long as it was income, I completed all my home projects at a fraction of the cost of hiring a contractor, my kids grades improved and they seemed happier too, my wife and I were more in love than at any time in our 20 years together. We did all this, and tapped only 15 % of our liquid savings - never touched my retirement account. Simply said, "my family became much closer to one another because we cut out all the excess stuff and activities that was stressing us out." After the economy improved like it always does, I landed my dream job (I attribute this to the degree). So, 5 years after the fact I am still at work making a decent wage, the savings and then some has been put back. The lesson learned during those 19 humbling months was to continue to live the simple and frugal life we chose and save, save, save! I will never forget that lesson, and am prepared to handle it again if the current recession jerks the rug out from under me.

    JR

    Thank you for writing this. I have been so worried lately because my company is talking layoff and I am single and just bought a house last year. I have been trying to save save save since I heard about the  layoff in march but I'm not as prepared as I would like but I am trying. I paid off all my debts except the mortgage and my student loan which can be deferred upon a layoff. I have a paid for car, take the bus, don't eat out, buy generic food, and have been shopping for all my clothes and needed items at yard sales/thrift/craigs list shops. I found a second job I could do at home to bring in a few extra hundred and plan to get another second job as soon as a big project at work is done. Last month I was able to come up with $1,000 to throw into savings somehow when usually I only have $400. I'm saying all this to show that even though I feel like I am preparing as much as possible, I have been so stressed out and this article made me feel like I can do whatever it takes when it comes down to it. Thank you!!

    Good job Karen!!  To everyone out there- you would be surprised at what you can do when things get tough. Being selfemployed in the construction industry I see things slowing down. You save all you can for the lean times. Back in '90-91  I took on a part time job for $6 per hour to keep things going .Eventually things picked up and they will again. Take heart!  None of us are struggling alone.

    Karen I have a question for you. Do you believe that you should live like this, or have to live like this? I think your answer would be obvious.  It is a good thing that you don't have children because they are expensive. An expense that I could not do with out. The experience of raising children has made me a better person. The joy they bring is immerasurable. The joy you speak of, listening to public radio, crisp autumn mornings, can be enjoyed by everyone, not those only who are financially poor. It just seems to me on one level you have settled for what life has handed you. You paint a panacea for being poor. Lets face it, it's not fun being poor, to say the least, it is very stressful which is not conducive to good health. I am sure you wish you could turn the themostat up few degrees or don't you?  

    Hi, Mike. Thanks for reading. I adopted strict measures to not spend any more money than necessary when my income was very limited. That's no longer the case. But I still live frugally, without deprivation, because it suits me. For instance, I got used to 63 degrees in the winter. (When I have company, I turn the heat up.) I don't like to waste resources, and I like to save money.

    My point is that I now know how to live with very little if that ever becomes necessary again.

    Karen: I read your original article and Donna's original article at the same time DH and I hit our financial wall. In a nutshell, about a year and a half ago one payday I ended up with less than $25.00 and I hadn't even paid bills yet,no savings and I had no idea where the money went. it was about 2AM and I couldn't sleep. After reading both articles, I went and began the brown bag challenge, and started a complete turn around with our finances. That was June 07. Now, when DH and I start to get full of ourselves, we read the articles again and again. I've become a daily reader of the smart spending blogs and poster in the smart spending message boards. Keep up with the good work!

    Pepperdoo, thank you for your wonderful note. You are an inspiration. And thanks for being such a loyal reader. We always love hearing from you.

    THIS  ROCKS, I AM WELL ON MY WAY TO A BETTER LIFE IN THESE TIMES

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