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We'll be home for Christmas -- if we can afford it

Posted Oct 03 2008, 11:43 AM by Donna Freedman
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About a month ago I booked a trip from Seattle to South Jersey to see my dad at the end of December. With taxes and fees, it came to $400. When I did a price search two weeks later, the cheapest ticket I could find was $97 more.

It's important to me to visit family, so I would have bought it anyway. Then again, there's only one of me. If I had a spouse and kids, that $97 per ticket would have been a problem.

Escalating travel prices are already a problem for a Smart Spending message board reader posting as "skammons," who recently canceled a trip because it cost too much. Baggage fees make travel even pricier, because the family brings a car seat and a stroller for its youngest member.

"That plus luggage for three adds up quickly," skammons wrote.

"We usually go see my family once each year, either for Christmas or Thanksgiving, but I don't know if we can this year because of the airline costs. It's frustrating."

'We still want to travel'
Next time you're tempted to complain about the price of the Philly-to-Boston shuttle, think about "Shawn in AK." She and her family of four used to travel several times a year, but moving to the Last Frontier cured them of that. They can't afford to travel again until late in 2009.

"It feels really weird to not be going anywhere for another year," Shawn said.

Having lived in Alaska for 17 years, I feel her pain. For many years we spent most or all of our vacation days visiting family back on the East Coast. And this was before the invention of Web special fares.

"NancyinFL" has had to go farther afield for cheap tickets because her local airport lost carriers. The closest airport with discount flights is 2½ hours away. Despite the long drive and the long-term parking, she and her family still save money.

"But it seems like we spent a lot of time going to and from our destinations instead of enjoying them," she said.

Reader "Sam O Ting" and his wife nixed a trip to Italy last July due to the abysmal exchange rate. Instead, they used frequent-flier miles to fly across the country and take a cruise. Next summer's vacation will be a day's drive away.

"We still want to travel; we just don't go as far," he said.

Book early, fly cheaper -- or free
"Cal Gal" is not just a frequent flier, but an overachieving one: She has earned free tickets on three different airlines. One of them will take her from California to the Midwest this Christmas; if she were paying cash, the trip would run her nearly $700. Frequent-flier seats tend to fill up fast, which is why Cal Gal booked hers way back in February.

Early purchase is key, according to "Inthetrenches," who booked a December trip for two from Pittsburgh to Orlando for $400. Those tickets would now cost $600, the reader reported, adding wryly that "those Web specials may be the next thing that goes away."

Last-minute flights can really cost you. Last year, reader "Deeone75" paid less than $300 total for three tickets from Florida to New Jersey. A recent death in the family meant booking tickets to the same destination with just one day's notice. That time, three tickets cost her $1,800. The airline gave a bereavement discount of only $45.

"This is crazy! When is this economy going to change?" Deeone75 wrote.

When we go -- and where
What's more likely is that consumers will have to change. Obvious tactics include enrolling in frequent-flier programs and searching diligently for the cheapest fares. Smart planning will help you avoid airline fees.

But in these days of economic turmoil, the question may be whether to vacation at all. Travel is not a divine right. If you're already in debt, shouldn't you be positioning yourself financially for the potential of layoffs or other bad times?

Such preparations generally would not include putting airline tickets on a credit card. Yet at the same time you want the kids to know Grandma and Grandpa in person, instead of from photographs.

If you have enough in your budget for some travel, the issue can easily become family vs. non-family vacations. Think luggage fees are outrageous? Wait until you see the cost of the emotional baggage should you book a ski trip instead of automatically going "home" for the holidays.

As costs continue to climb, we need to make tougher choices about how often we see family and/or old friends, and what constitutes a vacation.

I'd be interested in hearing how readers are handling these issues. I bet folks with limited funds and far-flung families would like to hear it, too. Leave a comment, or post your tips and strategies on this Smart Spending message board thread.

Comments

 

Chris, this is what you said: "Let's see, you chose to purchase airline tickets the day before you wanted to fly.  The fact that they cost $600 apiece is not in any way related to the economy."

She "chose" to purchase tickets the day before because that's when she learned about the death in the family.  You sounded incredibly judgemental in that opening line with the comment about choosing (like she was somehow culpable and careless for buying the ticket so late in the game).  You didn't just point out that late ticket purchases are more expensive, you made it sound like she chose not to plan.

the ticket prices are killing me as well. But, I saved a bundle by buying in advance. I paid $300 vs $500. MY Mom is in NJ and I live in Texas. Rather than fly there, I have her come here for the holidays. Since Texas is warmer than NJ in December she gets to tell all of her girlfriends she wore sandals on Christmas.

Ok, having been born and bred in AK yeah it sucks not visiting grandma and grandpa.  And growing up with six kids in the family there was no way that we were all going to hop a plane to the Lower 48.  But do I feel like I grew up not knowing grandma and grandpa (even though as a 30 year old woman I've met them twice in my lifetime?).  Nope! It's all about communication.  A stamp is cheaper than a plane ticket.  My grandma now has been sending me back the crazy letters and postcards I used to send her when I was a kid.  She kept them all these years.

Even though we don't have six kids, hubby and I are on a tight budget and our son has met my mom a handful of times and my dad once; and hubby's parents about the same amount.  There's still a lot of aunts and uncles we haven't seen in the eight years (almost 9!) since we got married and moved away.  

But in today's age it's even cheaper than a stamp!  I maintain a family blog that posts the latest happenings that are going on for the grandparents to view as they want (instead of cloging their email boxes with pictures).  And every Sunday our son calls Grandma and Grandpa up in Alaska to talk for an hour (with our bundled Cable/Internet/Phone service---long distance calls are unlimited and free).  

Every Thanksgiving and Christmas people shake their heads and express their sympathy for us living so far away from our families.  But you know when you grow up living 4000+ miles away from your closest aunt/uncle/cousin/grandparent--you adapt.  We're not lonely at all!

This is why I love trains.

I usually don't fly more than once or twice a year unless my job calls for it.  I now am accruing frequent flyer miles on only one airline, the one that goes to my most frequent destinations.  I had miles on 3 other programs, and they all expired before I got a chance to use them, including nearly 30k on American, because I fly with whomever gives me the most attractive flight, including time convenience and price.  It's no savings if you spend an extra $300 just to get 2000 frequent flyer miles.  I predict frequent flyer miles are going to go the way of the dodo, with all the other cutbacks and fees airlines are instituting.

Is anyone else having trouble accessing the message board?  I tried to liik at the thread she mentioned, but I got a message saying the website is uner repair or something.

I'm stuck in the same situation. I plan on using online coupons to get home for the holiday. www.onlinestorecoupon.com/.../travel-coupons.htm This way I can see my folks for less money since I have to take a plane.

One problem with visiting the family is that often Grandma/Grandpa expects the big family to pay for and do all the travelling. My Grandmother expects our family of 4 to visit her often when she hasn't been here to see us in years. Travel goes both ways. Suggest that the single person or couple do the travelling this year.

Alan,

These days, driving is a luxury, actually.  Provided you're traveling alone, an airline ticket for $600 don't sound that bad considering the cost of several fillups and a few extra stays at a not-too-seedy motel.  It still might be less, but when you consider the extra time involved it doesn't seem as worth it as maybe it once did.

And yes, some people's jobs do depend on their being able to travel long distances in short times.  Less so with the advent of teleconferencing, but still -- one's job is not a luxury.

For months now, my boss has been moaning because her daughter will have to spend Christmas Day on a plane so the family can go to their Florida home (okay, 2 hours or so) so she could get a bargain on the airfare.  

Can anybody give me a good response that won't get me fired?  I'm leaning towards "Well, there are many children who aren't going to HAVE any Christmas this year, let alone go to Florida for the holiday".

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