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We'll be home for Christmas -- if we can afford it

Posted Oct 03 2008, 11:43 AM by Donna Freedman
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About a month ago I booked a trip from Seattle to South Jersey to see my dad at the end of December. With taxes and fees, it came to $400. When I did a price search two weeks later, the cheapest ticket I could find was $97 more.

It's important to me to visit family, so I would have bought it anyway. Then again, there's only one of me. If I had a spouse and kids, that $97 per ticket would have been a problem.

Escalating travel prices are already a problem for a Smart Spending message board reader posting as "skammons," who recently canceled a trip because it cost too much. Baggage fees make travel even pricier, because the family brings a car seat and a stroller for its youngest member.

"That plus luggage for three adds up quickly," skammons wrote.

"We usually go see my family once each year, either for Christmas or Thanksgiving, but I don't know if we can this year because of the airline costs. It's frustrating."

'We still want to travel'
Next time you're tempted to complain about the price of the Philly-to-Boston shuttle, think about "Shawn in AK." She and her family of four used to travel several times a year, but moving to the Last Frontier cured them of that. They can't afford to travel again until late in 2009.

"It feels really weird to not be going anywhere for another year," Shawn said.

Having lived in Alaska for 17 years, I feel her pain. For many years we spent most or all of our vacation days visiting family back on the East Coast. And this was before the invention of Web special fares.

"NancyinFL" has had to go farther afield for cheap tickets because her local airport lost carriers. The closest airport with discount flights is 2½ hours away. Despite the long drive and the long-term parking, she and her family still save money.

"But it seems like we spent a lot of time going to and from our destinations instead of enjoying them," she said.

Reader "Sam O Ting" and his wife nixed a trip to Italy last July due to the abysmal exchange rate. Instead, they used frequent-flier miles to fly across the country and take a cruise. Next summer's vacation will be a day's drive away.

"We still want to travel; we just don't go as far," he said.

Book early, fly cheaper -- or free
"Cal Gal" is not just a frequent flier, but an overachieving one: She has earned free tickets on three different airlines. One of them will take her from California to the Midwest this Christmas; if she were paying cash, the trip would run her nearly $700. Frequent-flier seats tend to fill up fast, which is why Cal Gal booked hers way back in February.

Early purchase is key, according to "Inthetrenches," who booked a December trip for two from Pittsburgh to Orlando for $400. Those tickets would now cost $600, the reader reported, adding wryly that "those Web specials may be the next thing that goes away."

Last-minute flights can really cost you. Last year, reader "Deeone75" paid less than $300 total for three tickets from Florida to New Jersey. A recent death in the family meant booking tickets to the same destination with just one day's notice. That time, three tickets cost her $1,800. The airline gave a bereavement discount of only $45.

"This is crazy! When is this economy going to change?" Deeone75 wrote.

When we go -- and where
What's more likely is that consumers will have to change. Obvious tactics include enrolling in frequent-flier programs and searching diligently for the cheapest fares. Smart planning will help you avoid airline fees.

But in these days of economic turmoil, the question may be whether to vacation at all. Travel is not a divine right. If you're already in debt, shouldn't you be positioning yourself financially for the potential of layoffs or other bad times?

Such preparations generally would not include putting airline tickets on a credit card. Yet at the same time you want the kids to know Grandma and Grandpa in person, instead of from photographs.

If you have enough in your budget for some travel, the issue can easily become family vs. non-family vacations. Think luggage fees are outrageous? Wait until you see the cost of the emotional baggage should you book a ski trip instead of automatically going "home" for the holidays.

As costs continue to climb, we need to make tougher choices about how often we see family and/or old friends, and what constitutes a vacation.

I'd be interested in hearing how readers are handling these issues. I bet folks with limited funds and far-flung families would like to hear it, too. Leave a comment, or post your tips and strategies on this Smart Spending message board thread.

Comments

 

Thanks for quoting me in your article, Donna!

While ticket bargains can be found, the prices are still sneaking up, due to fewer airports having fewer flights, airlines with higher fees, etc., as we found out. We plan no further travel of more than a day until a year from now, when my husband retires. Thanks to the savings advice from these blogs and boards, the trip we did make to Oregon was a lot less financially painful than it could have been. And I have started saving for the next trip.

Some of our relatives travel here on business, and we see them when they do, as one way to combine business with pleasure. When I travel for business, I do the same. I also use every travel website I can find, or freinds can find for me, and compare prices on hotels, plane tickets and rental cars on a spreadsheet, before making a decision. I order travel guides from local chambers of commerce (they are usually free, and more up-to-date than bookstore travel guides) and they often have money saving coupons and more local information on upcoming free and low cost things to see and do.

"This is crazy! When is this economy going to change?" Deeone75 wrote.

Let's see, you chose to purchase airline tickets the day before you wanted to fly.  The fact that they cost $600 apiece is not in any way related to the economy.  

Many people have some advance notice about when and where they need to fly, and are able to take advantage of lower fares.  Others, whether for business or personal reasons, need to take trips on short notice sometimes -- which is one factor in the relatively high cost of last minute ticketing.  It's no secret that walk-up fares are often the highest.  Airlines aren't non-profits -- so while in the old days they might have given greater discounts for bereavement fares, they're under no obligation to do so.

We have enough problems with the economy without blaming it for the price of air travel.

Why does the family with kids need to travel back home.  In many cases, mom and pop could come out instead.  Netting the group a few tickets less.  Families need to be reasonable in this day and age and that's one way to save money and still have a family holiday together.

As for international travel, deals can still be found on discount package websites like Go-Today.com.  I just saw a "Best of Prague" vacation for $799 a person, including airfare and 6 nights hotel.  Its not out of reach, you can still get away.

why did you wait until the last minute. You knew you were going 6 months ago. If you would have bought the ticket then you would have saved hundreds of dollars like i did on my christmas ticket. I bought on jet blue at @250.00 per ticket and now it is 600.00 for the same ticket today.shame on you !!!!!

Like Tom mentioned, "why did you wait until the last minute."

Ultimately, it boils down to planning in advance; if you don't, plan on coughing up a lot of money for traveling home for Christmas.

My wife and I are only recently married. She has been going home for Christmas for 21 years of her life; and, due to prices (among some other things), we won't be going home. We just can't afford it! We checked 2 months ago for tickets and they were upwards $400. Neither of us can justify paying $800 dollars between the two of us to get home. As much as we love our families (and we do!), we just can't afford it.

So- how are we coping? We're just plain not going to travel. Period. Young college students like us don't have the means to!

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Why are people jumping all over Deeone75 for buying her tickets at the last minute?  Its not like she was going on vacation, it was a death in the family, its not like you can plan in advance for that.  Geez.

Anotherdonna --

My message wasn't critical of her for spending that amount -- it was critical of her comment blaming the cost of the tickets on the economy.  I'm sorry for the circumstances under which she felt she needed to travel quickly.  My point is that the main cost driver for her tickets is the short timeframe prior to departure when she purchased them rather than the economy.

What I find interesting is having grown up in the 50's when airline travel was a luxury how many today take it for granted almost as an entitlement - We drove in those days and stayed in road side motels or camped - Oh how life has changed in this country.  

Did anyone not read that she bought them one day in advance due to a death, last time I checked those were not planned events!!!! Pay more attention people please!!!!

The Key is being reasonable, planning ahead, looking for alternative modes of travel, etc.... Our family usually drives in to some place central to the majority of the group and rents a cabin or home for us all to stay in and be together.  It may not be what your used to, but its actually very nice with not all the pressure being placed on a particular couple to "host".

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