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10 simple steps to eliminating debt

Posted Aug 05 2008, 08:13 AM by Karen Datko
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This post comes from partner blog Blueprint for Financial Prosperity:

I've never liked having debt because I've always felt uncomfortable owing someone money. When it comes to major purchases like a home, it's usually unavoidable; but for smaller- ticket items, I avoid debt like the plague because I know it's a slippery slope.

You start owing a little here, a little there, and the next thing you know you're making large monthly payments with little to show for it.

But we've all been there; we all slip up. Whether it's eating too much at a meal, spending too much when you're out with friends, or something else, stuff happens and you deal. Well, if debt happened and you're looking for some tips on how to get it unhappened, I'd like you to check out these 10 steps I've learned over the years.

Understand the size of your debt. The first step is to come to grips with it. Whether you have $1,000 of credit card debt because you wanted a new television or you have $100,000 in student loan debt, Step One is to fully understand it all.

Write down every debt you have, the monthly payment, the interest rate, and the period of repayment. Just knowing in your mind is not enough; write the whole thing down so you know for sure how much you are paying. Now go to a site like Dinkytown.net and calculate how much you are paying in interest if you were to follow the repayment structure. Take a deep breath, because that number will be huge. You now fully understand the magnitude of that debt and the importance of eliminating it.

Now make a promise to yourself, to your spouse, to your children, to whomever -- you are going to eliminate this debt.

Get A friend involved. Everything is easier if you get a friend involved with your goal of eliminating debt. Having a friend know that you've made this commitment will help you whenever you face obstacles. For example, let's say you're hanging out with a group of your friends and one of them suggests a movie. You've already spent your entertainment budget for the week, and a $9 movie is going to take away from how much you'll be able to pay toward the Visa bill this month. Having a friend who recognizes what you're trying to do can help when you suggest a cheaper, or free, alternative.

Having a friend involved also helps to keep you accountable. For me, blogging keeps me accountable because so many people know what I'm trying to do. Many debt bloggers talk about their debt out in the open, tracking it monthly, because they know it will keep them accountable. Heck, nothing is stopping you from starting a blog.

Budget, budget, budget. You can make progress on your debt only if you are aware of where your money is going. A budget is the only way you will be able to get a solid handle on your finances and the only way you'll be able to continually pay down your debts. If you earn $1,000 a pay period and spend $1,001, you'll never be able to repay your debts. If you earn $1,000 a pay period and aren't sure how much you're spending, you'll never be able to repay your debts. Establish a budget for how much you will spend on each expense and stick to it (more on that later).

Prioritize it. How important is it to eliminate this debt? You understand the debt, you've made yourself a promise, you've even told a friend, but what is this debt preventing in your life? Is it stopping you from putting enough away to buy a house? Is the constant monthly payment preventing you from saving toward your children's education? Many things in life are about trade-offs. What are you trading away in return for keeping this debt just one more month? By prioritizing, you might recognize that there are 100 things more important to you than the stuff you bought with that debt -- or the other things you're paying for. Trim them so you can put more money toward your debt.

Remind yourself constantly. I've written in the past about how you can curb spending by writing goals on your credit cards. Trent Hamm of The Simple Dollar takes it one step further and puts a picture of his kids on his credit cards to remind himself. It's easy to forget our goals if we don't constantly remind ourselves of them.

When I was younger, my father smoked cigarettes. My sister and I wanted him to quit and he agreed to. To help him along, we put "no smoking" signs all over the house as a constant reminder of his promise. My father hasn't smoked since he made that promise and I like to think our little signs played a small role.

Eliminate temptation. Alcoholics avoid bars because that's where the temptation is. What is your vice? Love shopping at the mall? Stop going to the mall. Love electronics? Don't go to Best Buy or Circuit City. Remember your priorities, remember your promise, and try to eliminate temptation from your life.

One of my temptations is good food. I like going to our favorite restaurants because I can order food I enjoy. To overcome this, my wife and I have been spending more time in the kitchen cooking new recipes and trying new things. I enjoy spending quality time with my wife more than I enjoy good food. The side benefit is that we save money by not eating out and we are healthier for it.

Establish milestones. To help you achieve the goal of paying off your debt, it's important to establish realistic milestones. Eliminating a large debt is a marathon, not a sprint, and this idea is much like one that I recommend to people looking for jobs. By establishing achievable short-term and mid-term milestones, you give yourself a sense of progress and accomplishment. If you owe $10,000 and plan on paying it off over two years, set milestones every six months or every quarter. As you hit them, you'll feel a sense of accomplishment and it will boost your morale.

Reward yourself. If you manage to pay off $2,500 in the first six months, reward yourself with something fun (but inexpensive). Go out and get some ice cream to celebrate your accomplishment. Treat your friend to some ice cream too, to thank him or her for helping you get this far.

Snowflake. You've been humming along for a few months, hitting your intermediary milestone, removing temptations, rewarding yourself for meeting your mini-goals, but you feel that there could be more you could do. There is. Snowflaking (a term I attribute to "paidtwice") is the idea that you take "found money" and put it toward your debt in the form of unscheduled payments. Sell a used book for $20? Put that toward your highest- interest debt. Find a $5 bill somewhere? Snowflake it toward a debt.

Don't go back. This final step is for those who have achieved their final milestone and have eliminated all their debt. First off, congratulations. What you've accomplished is not simple. It's difficult to take that surplus each month and put it toward debt, so kudos for the achievement. However, the job isn't finished. Much like how alcoholics are never "cured," you always have the fear of relapse.

Unless you have the cash to pay for something, don't borrow the money you need, unless it's for a house or a car. For some, this means you go to an all-cash lifestyle ("NCN" doesn't use a credit card for this very reason) and for others it means you simply make the card difficult to get a hold of. If you can't pay it off at the end of the month, start saving until you can. You know how hard it is to get out of debt; don't go back in.

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Comments

 

DW and I struggled for years with yo-yo debt: we would get it paid off, then turn around and incur more.  We finally beat it through a few simple steps.  1) CASH.  We do most of our shopping in cash, and don't use any other method (credit) unless we already have a plan for paying it off.  You can't bounce cash and there is no interest.  It also reduces temptation if that's all you have with you.  2) BUDGET.  DW pays the monthly bills and has a (somewhat flexible) budget amount she uses for planning the payments.  3) OVERPAY.  Where possible, we overpay any credit payments.  We NEVER pay the minimum.  This is a big part of the flexibility above, as you can always lower a payment for a month or so.  If we can't overpay, we question whether we need to make the purchase.  4) EXPECTATIONS.  We learned to live within what was then a very modest income; as the income grew, we always put money into investments and savings before increasing our budget.  What we adjusted was our expectations.  Our monthly cash expenses haven't increased in ten years.

Great article.

Our family made the mistake of purchasing a car when we couldn't afford it; having read a number or articles on personal finance, we don't make the same mistakes anymore.

But for those of us that are STILL in quite a bit of debt, this is good stuff!

Recently, my wife and I had the need for new furniture; in order to stay out of debt, we created a "furniture fund" in our budget and paid cash for everything!

Oh the peace of mind that comes from not owing anybody a dang thing! Read about our families battles with money in http://www.financialnut.com

Debt reduction rocks!  Great article... Thanks for the link-love...

One thing to keep in mind - No matter what the plan, you must couple it with INTENSITY.  You have to get 'sick and tired of being sick and tired...'

Rock on,

NCN

www.ncnblog.com

There's something new I learned from this article and that's to do some snowflaking as one way to help eliminate debt.  I think that's a cool idea.  You mentioned that one is really never cured when it comes to getting into debt.  So do you think we need something like the AA that the alcoholics have?

Evelyn Guzman

http://www.debtchallenges.com

I think if most people would live with in there means, and   realize this  and be comfortable  with what they bring in, there would not be any debt unless there was an emergency.

Thanks for your help!

I agree completely with Evelyn.  I have a recent car loan - the car is used - and have been trying to snowflake it, sending every few dollars I can to reduce the balance in addition to my regular payment. But my credit union doesn't reduce the balance! They told me I am paying ahead on the interest so my snowflakes or even payments don't show anything ahead, just the initial balance I started with; it will be paid off sooner, but there is no incentive since I can't watch the balance go down on my online account. I can't even access my actual balance.  This is very discouraging and I wonder if there is some way around it.

We have $250K in student loan debt between me and my husband, a 12K car loan, and a few thousand we owe relatives.  AND on top of all of that, about 10K in credit card debt.  We have been doing the whole 'yo-yo' debt as 'B in North Country' described, and I have finally gotten realistic about my debt.  Ours wasn't on fancy vacations or what have you-it was on moving back home from D.C., on a car fix or the kids needed new clothes for the year, the lapse of time between the old job and the new one, etc.  I am bent and determined to get out of debt.  So much that my  husband and I have a goal of getting rid of our 10K debt in one year-crazy to think, but we figured if we set that goal, we'd be more determined than lets say setting a 5 year goal.  We both work full time jobs, he donates plasma and does medical studies, and I babysit, sell things on eBay for friends for a small commission, and run a blog that is finally starting to take off.  Even if it's an extra $10 a month-that goes to something.  The rising gas bill, a little extra to pay on the credit card, etc.  I don't want my family to always be thinking about debt.  My kids are young-I want to be able to take family vacations someday.  But NOT until I get out of debt!

From above [ But my credit union doesn't reduce the balance! They told me I am paying ahead on the interest so my snowflakes or even payments don't show anything ahead, ]

IS THIS LEGAL?  

If you specify that it is to be applied to the principal I thought that paying interest AHEAD is Illegal,

I would be inclined to save the snow flakes and when the balance is where it can be paid off then do so and stop doing buisness with them

Make them aware why you are doing it, also get the word out as to Who this Credit union is in your community to take buisness away from them.

I do little or no business with Sears or any Citi Finnancial business because of their Credit practices, Oh and BTW   I am out of debit so STICK WITH IT

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