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She earns $150,000 a year, and is sinking deeper in debt

Posted Jun 20 2008, 08:40 PM by Karen Datko
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"DogAteMyFinances" didn't report a success story when she recently updated her finances for her reading public. When she started her blog, also called Dog Ate My Finances, she had a net worth of $8,000 and $30,000 of debt, she wrote.

Fast forward six months. The net worth is now $3,000 and the debt has grown to $45,000. "That's just embarrassing when you make over 150K," she admitted. But, she's being an adult about it. She's blaming no one but herself.

In a reversal of roles, her readers offered sound advice to the personal-finance blogger.

But first, where has all the money gone? She helped her fiance start a business that had upfront costs for equipment and inventory, and it has yet to start making a profit, although it seems to be getting close.

Other expenses: a personal trainer ($30 an hour twice a week), a "ridiculous garage of cars," eating out often, a vacation in Haiti, a bridesmaid dress, etc. Also, they pay people to clean their rented condo and their clothes.

Some of her readers cut her no slack. "The shame of it is that your lifestyle sounds, well, a bit selfish. It's hard to sympathize with someone who makes twice what our family of four lives on," wrote one anonymous reader.

Others urged measures like budgeting (and sticking to it), cutting up the credit cards, eliminating unnecessary expenses, and simply getting real with herself. SavingDiva shared the wisdom of her own experience: "I definitely had some failures early on with my blog. But you just have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and keep going."

All good advice, but we're concerned that "Dog" still doesn't get it. In her most recent post about the business -- written after her readers gave all that wonderful advice -- she wrote: "I asked Fiance what he wanted to do when the business made money. I expected him to suggest a fancy restaurant or a gadget. Instead, Fiance said he wanted to take a little road trip to a kind of close B&B." Hmm.

She is making some progress. She's contributing the maximum to her 401(k). And, after early backsliding, she kept her pledge not to buy clothing for six months -- except that she ended it a month early so she could buy a summer work outfit at the Neiman Marcus biannual sale. It could have been worse; she had planned to splurge when the moratorium was over. "Now that I'm off no-buy ... I can't even think of any shoes or bags I want. Just the one outfit," she wrote. "And that is a huge deal for me."

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Who cares about net worth.   With housing crisis you could be upside down.  Your

home could be worth $200,000. less than your mortgage now and still have other non cash assets worth another $208,000. which could give you an $8,000. net worth,but it's all meaningless if you don't have the cash to pay your monthly bills!

My mortgage cost is $4,000.00 a month, in winter gas heat is $900 -1,000 per month, in summer electric is $800.-1,000 per month, ($1,000 a month utility bill), add water bill to keep the lawn green, $250 per month for 4 months,  now car insurance for 3 cars, $700 a month, cable bill 4 rooms $220 a month.  Homeowners $180 a month, car payments $900.a month.   Tolls $220 a month, Auto fuel to work $400. a month.  A new appliance here & there, cost unknown,  Food & beverage family of 4

$1,000 a month.   Recreation $100. a month.  No cloths or personal items included

and we are near $9,000. a month.   That's not taking into account personal income tax that had to be paid on the earnings that funded that $9,000. or about another

$3,000. a month.  So it takes almost $12,000.  a month to just live on without any

extravagance.   There's her $150,000.  pay already shot.   So yah, I understand where she's comming from and why she's broke.    You don't even get to be called middle class earning $150,000. a year!

Well, at least she is not blaming anyone but herself for her financial situation. It sounds like she really needs to address what is behind her financial decisions (the psychology of her relationship with money).

I would like to know where she lives. In several cities in the US, 150k doesn't go that far.

Done, if you would like to get rich, work harder. That is how people get rich: They MAKE money performing a service or providing a product people want or need. The rich get richer and the poor get poorer sounds like a regurgitated sound bite and simply reflects the speaker's envy.  

Let's not forget that the categories of rich and poor are fluid: People move up and out and into a new category. MANY of the rich people made their money the old-fashioned way: They earned it. They did not come from rich backgrounds: Bill Gates comes to mind as does Larry Page one of the co-founders of google (in fact he grew up in a VERY middle class neighborhood. He simply had parents who cared enough to encourage him and a talent for computers/math).

Simple financial discipline -- that will cure or at least help her financial "ills."  

just one more exampe of a woman who is paid 3x what shes worth and spends 3x what she makes---not a suprise--its true for 80-90% of the women working right now --why we pay them so much for so little only to see them give it all to the high-priced shoe stores and salons is beyond me--one of these days men will smarten up and refuse to chase skirts and sex with cash--then the only job a woman can get will be from a woman owned business--5% of the businesses--and they will  all go down the tubes together------cant wait to see it---

Who cares about net worth.   With housing crisis you could be upside down.  Your

home could be worth $200,000. less than your mortgage now and still have other non cash assets worth another $208,000. which could give you an $8,000. net worth,but it's all meaningless if you don't have the cash to pay your monthly bills!

My mortgage cost is $4,000.00 a month, in winter gas heat is $900 -1,000 per month, in summer electric is $800.-1,000 per month, ($1,000 a month utility bill), add water bill to keep the lawn green, $250 per month for 4 months,  now car insurance for 3 cars, $700 a month, cable bill 4 rooms $220 a month.  Homeowners $180 a month, car payments $900.a month.   Tolls $220 a month, Auto fuel to work $400. a month.  A new appliance here & there, cost unknown,  Food & beverage family of 4

$1,000 a month.   Recreation $100. a month.  No cloths or personal items included

and we are near $9,000. a month.   That's not taking into account personal income tax that had to be paid on the earnings that funded that $9,000. or about another

$3,000. a month.  So it takes almost $12,000.  a month to just live on without any

extravagance.   There's her $150,000.  pay already shot.   So yah, I understand where she's comming from and why she's broke.    You don't even get to be called middle class earning $150,000. a year!

Her true NET assets would actually be = liquidated assets + cash -  liabilities. The worth is just an estimation of worth, not what someone is actually going to pay you. Could actually be higher or lower. In today's brutal market probably lower..

I understand her situation. I am developing my website called MyMissYouSpace and I have to budget carefully. As a Doctoral Student in Business and technology, independent contractor for Information Technology I know that startups and balancing a check book is tough. I would say live modestly so that your business can strive.

Grow up!  You could feed Africa with $150K!

In this society before the price hike of petroleum products and the chain reaction that created higher prices for other essentil things , a single person with a steady income of $12,000 per year could have lived in some parts of the country with three meals per day and a roof over his/her income.  The catch is he/she should know the differnce between want and need clearly and use the money only for needs.

When your OUTGO is more than your INCOME, your UPKEEP is your DOWNFALL.

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