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A fabulous wedding for under $5,000

Posted Apr 09 2008, 08:13 PM by Karen Datko
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When we read about Amy's plans for her wedding at My Daily Dollars, we wanted to be invited. This excellent post explains how you can celebrate in an incredible setting with fabulous food for less than $5,000.

First of all, decide what your wedding means to you. "When I imagined my wedding day, what always got me the most excited was the fact that it will be one of the few times in my life that many of the people I love will be in one place at the same time," Amy writes. "Once I had that in mind, other things started to fall into place."

Base the theme on the location, not the other way around. It takes a lot of money to transform a boring social hall into a special place. Her wedding and a "scrumptious picnic reception" will be at a lodge in the state park where she and her fiance had one of their first dates. She adds, "I'm planning for a hike down to the river in my wedding dress."

Tip No. 3 is: "Ditch the 'it only happens once' thinking." If you can't afford the party you want, you can have that party another day. "When the realities of budgeting came into my planning, I had to give up the very elegant cocktail reception at our local art gallery, complete with a jazz trio and designer shoes," she says. "But you know what's great? I can have that reception for our 10-year anniversary or my stepdaughter's college graduation or any old reason I want."

She also explains how she is splurging on things that matter and cutting costs on stuff that doesn't. Plus, she's involving family and friends. The food at her reception will be incredible because they're helping her make it. To read her entire post, click here.

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My daughter that a Breakfast wedding on a Thursday morning. The country club cost were half the price.  We invited 80 people and 72 were able to attend.  So many people work on weekends and a day off during the week was not a problem.

For all those who said that this was useless...open your ears dummies...what she's trying to say is be creative and think  and it can be done. She just gave you some pretty good starting hints and then it's up to you. I suspect that you all just want the work done and spelled out for you in detail so you have no work or thought to put into it..typical of young people today.You all need it handed to you on all silver platter. Slackers.

Your wedding will and should be the best day of your life. It is a celebration of your new life together as husband and wife.  You should make it special and for this one celebration do it up for you and your guests!  

If you are going to cut costs, do not do it at the reception.  The food and drinks should be of the best quality and be top of the line. Do not skimp on any part, alcohol included.  Say NO to a cash bar, it may save you money but it is NOT appropriate.  Would you make guest pay for drink if you invited them into your home?  Then you should NOT do it at your wedding!!  Remember, the family and friends you have invited to share in your big day, they are your guests. They should be treated as such.

If you want to cut costs, go less on the gown and accessories.  Not on the food and beverage.  There are only 2 things your guest will remember about your wedding that is:  ‘Was the dinner service good?’ and ‘Did I have fun?’  This is where the music will be important.  

Everything else will be for your own memory…after it is all said and done, how will you remember your wedding?

It would be terrible to think 5 years later, I should have done it differently. You should have the wedding of your dreams!  

After all it is forever…

Did you guys actually read the article this links to, or just this summary?  That's all this is supposed to be, you know--a summary of the real article.

I planned a small, intimate wedding for about 25 guests when my son and his fiancee were married. This was a 2nd marriage for bride and groom.They wanted to be married right after Christmas while visiting us. Couple was busy, out of town, buying house and furnishings and moving.Due to holiday season,  many avenues were closed. I selected a gorgeous cake from a local supermarket. I also found the buffet food from them as well as all the flowers.They even delivered, total food cost was $750.Event was staged i n our home. We bought the champagne and flutes as well as other liquor.Photographer came to house. Total wedding cost: less than $2500.

I did my wedding for $5,000 as well. It was an indian wedding and I refused to have my parents pay for it. So my husband and I came up with a plan.

We had all the hiccups of a wedding - replete with tears, fighting, dancing and laughter. It was great and its been 10 years already.

Simple is best. Because no one is going to carry the memory of your $800 flower arrangement. People remember the laughter, the antics, and all the kooky things that happen at weddings. You do what makes you feel happy and you can do it for under $5000.

i THOUGHT THIS DID NOT GIVE ANY INFORMATION AND WAS A WASTE OF TIME

I think when most people are looking for tips on how to do things for less they are looking for info on how to achieve the same thing that they want but for less money. Not completely change it up and do what they don't want. This article seems to just proove you can't do it for less. I work full time, am in my first year of law school, and getting married in 5 months. I don't have time to do it all myself, refuse to put it all on my friends and relatives just to save a few bucks, and don't want to regret anything about our wedding day. We want to celebrate our love for each other while we can because life is only going to get more crazy and more expensive. How about pointing people towards the best bang for their buck.

I am planning my wedding for May 2008 and I set my budget at $5k and I have stuck to it! I shopped around alot and spent alot of time on the internet. I bought my dress at David's Bridal for $250, my Invitations for 200 guests from www.theamericanwedding.com for $115 and my flowers bulk from Sam's club for $300. There are so many "Do it yourself" books and websites out there now that it is a waste to pay someone to plan your wedding. I am buying my flower's bulk from Sam's club and my bridal party and I are using the day before to hand tie our bouquet's. I am also making my own very simple but sweet wedding favors. I am using black plastic spoons, hershey's kisses, champange colored tulle and white ribbon for my favors. Like the bride in the article I too am only buying limited drinks. I am paying for the champange and punch, anything other than that the guests can buy from the bar. Another good piece of advice, check with your friends and family to see if they know anyone that does photography, cater's or even make's wedding cakes. Also remember, this is your wedding not your guests. Serve food that you want at your wedding, you dont have to serve salmon or filet mignon. I went to a wedding a few weeks ago and the dinner was Beef Wellington! I ate half of it and let the server take it, I would of been happy with a piece of baked chicken. Watch hosting your reception at a hotel, they tend to be very expensive and you have to use their caterer. Find a nice hall that you can add small but beautiful decorations to. Also look into ceremony site's that are out of the ordinary, golf course, a nice prarie, on a mountain or by a lake. You may also want to see if there are any other wedding's that day and see if the other bride's would be willing to go halves on decorations! I ran across a few place's that also offer package deals where you get the ceremony, reception, cake, flowers and your photographer! Skip the limo! Most limo companies require you to rent the limo for a minimum of 2 hours and unless your planning on doing alot of driving on your wedding day, you will not need a limo that long! See if any friends or family member's own a really nice car like a Mercedes-Benz or Jaguar or even an Oldie but Goodie that they fixed up! Also when ordering your wedding cake, order your cake for half of the guests you are expecting. Most people dont eat the wedding cake and it ends up going to waste. A cool and cute new trend is to replace the wedding cake with cupcakes. This save's you on cost of the cake and it also save's you from having to pay a cutting fee! I hope this helped you ladies that didn't get anything from the article!

First of all for your flowers if you can plan far enough ahead watch for them (artificial) to go on sell. Plan for real flowers for your bouquet only and maybe some on tables. Make the arrangements yourself or get a friend to help. There are tons of instructions on that. Next, Ask friends to help and also to give thier services in place of a wedding gift. Do as much as you can yourself and keep it SIMPLE. My son and his wife married in our church, had two hundred guests, had a simple reception with cake and punch only and it was absolutely beautiful. Used greenery from my house. I have LOTS of ivy. Outside of the wedding dress, we only spent about $2,000. Of course this doe not include the honeymoon. After wedding I think sold some of the flower arrangements for the pews on Ebay.

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