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Let kids learn about money by making mistakes

Posted Feb 13 2008, 09:27 AM by Karen Datko
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This post comes from partner blog The Dough Roller.

This past weekend my son had to have a video game. All Sunday afternoon he kept clamoring for one of us to take him to EB Games. Eventually we gave in, and off we went to the store with his hard-earned money.

As fate would have it, the game he wanted was not in stock. But he needed his video-game fix, so he indulged in something I'm sure all of us have from time to time -- impulse buying. He picked a game that he had not planned on buying.

What made the decision so important was that the store doesn't allow returns. He knew that and he knew it was an impulse purchase. We discussed it before he put down his money.

We could have said no to the purchase and made him think about it for a day or two. But what would he have learned?

His best chance at learning to handle money is to make mistakes now, when he's young. A $20 mistake today could mean he avoids a $20,000 mistake later in life. Sure enough, he later regretted the purchase. The game turned out OK, but it wasn't what he wanted. Now, he doesn't have the money to buy the game he really wanted.

He's feeling the pain and making the best of the game he bought, but he wishes he had made a different choice. He even told us how hard it was for him to avoid impulse buying and asked us to help him avoid it in the future.

That's a lesson well worth $20.

Other articles of interest at The Dough Roller:

"Speed chess and the art of patient investing"

 

"Warning: Converting an index fund to an ETF may increase your wealth"

"Nifty tricks with the Rule of 72, 71, 70, 69.3, 114, 144 and my favorites, 1.5 and 1,080,000"

Comments

 

The lesson was learned by the parents and the child learned how to make a mistake.

Parents gave in, (they admitted it), the child learned from his early days how to get what he wants.

The child learned that when you say no it means maybe later.

You made excuses as to why take him. You said no, but in reality you didn't have a reason good enough to say yes. You waited until a logical sequence came up causing you to give in. The rest of what happened at the store was coincidental and in your favor. You should want your child to succeed the first time and not from their mistakes. Make improvements not excuses.

Later he will try his ways of dealing with request on other authority figures and money lost will not be the issue. ie. Getting in trouble in school. Instead  teach respect, and responsibility for starters.

Dogs learn by conditioning, people learn by reasoning when being nurtured with love.

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