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A new mom's dilemma: Stay home or go back to work?

Posted Feb 12 2008, 02:16 PM by Karen Datko
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Those facing a decision about staying at home with a new child or returning to work could do no better than to read Madison's personal analysis at My Dollar Plan. She figures in the obvious factors -- lost pay, reduced work-related and child care expenses -- and others that many people probably wouldn't think of.

For instance: How would reduced family income affect any future plans to refinance the mortgage? How would happen to her future Social Security earnings? How would staying at home now affect her plans to have more kids later. And this: "If I didn't go back, would I resign, or would I take a leave of absence (which preserves my start date)? How does it affect my pension calculation?" she writes. She also asked readers to point out any factors she missed.

Madison used several online calculators, including one here at MSN Money, and then compared the results with her own spreadsheet. It's an exercise she recommends so "you'll have a complete picture of the true value of your job."

The conclusion she and her husband reached is that Madison should return to work. "While I ultimately want to stay home, I do feel that I owe my family a level of financial security that my job currently provides," she writes. But, as she is known to do, Madison has devised another dollar plan. "What I'd like to do is financially set ourselves up so that when we have another child in the next two to three years that it wouldn't make any difference financially which decision I make."

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Thanks for highlighting my article. It really was a tough decision. I hope it helps out some other moms in the same situation.

It was wonderfully written and I love how she really weighed the pros and cons. It's not a simple decision and the article showed a lot of the turmoil that goes into it. Madison also is now planning to ahead to a time when staying at home would be an option that makes her completely comfortable. I loved the article and I'm glad Madison is ok with her decision.

The analysis is great, but I would have approached it differently.  When I did this analysis myself a few years ago I focused on what I would have to change in my current budget to afford to stay home (rather than focusing on what the cost of staying home was and whether I could 'afford' it).  I supposed this was due to my bias of wanting to stay home though.  If find that my family of four (soon to be five) was very doable (in the Boston area) on one salary once I dedicated a few hours a week to making better financial decisions (with the help of many sites like this one)!

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