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10 things I know at 40 that I wish I'd known at 20

Posted Jan 17 2008, 10:04 AM by Karen Datko
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This post comes from partner blog The Dough Roller.

The best thing about being 40 is having survived your 20s and 30s. And at 40, I'm considered an old-timer in the personal-finance blogging community. Reflecting back on the past 20 years, I realize that I've learned a thing or two that I wish (oh, how I wish) I had known when I was 20.

Here they are, in no particular order:

School loans are like a bad date -- easy to get, but hard to get rid of. At 40, I still have more than $20,000 in school loans. Education is important, but I spent far more money during school than I needed to spend.

Compounding, like the 1970s Big Red Machine, is pure magic. Assuming you retire at 65 and earn a 10% return on your investments, $1 invested when you're 20 will be worth 2.5 times more than $1 invested when you're 30, 6.5 times more than $1 invested when you're 40, and 18 times more than $1 invested when you're 50.

New cars, once bought, aren't new. I wish I could have back all the money we've spent on cars, particularly new cars. The cost just isn't worth the financial freedom you have to sacrifice.

Great fortunes are made from small investments. It's amazing to me how small monthly investments, given enough time, can grow into substantial wealth.

Investing, like children, shouldn't wait until you can afford it. If you can read this blog, then it's not too early to start investing. This makes me wish I had started investing in high school. Fifty dollars invested per month in high school earning 10% would be worth about $212,000 at retirement.

Financial shortcuts increase the time it takes to reach your goals. Ignore all the silly personal-finance books that promise great wealth in a short time with no risk. Investing isn't hard, but these promises are designed to sell books, not create lasting wealth.

My wife is more frugal than I am. If I had recognized that 20 years ago, I would have listened to her and not frittered away so much money on stupid stuff. Sorry, Mrs. Dough.

Unlike just about everything else in life, with investing you don't get what you pay for. My first few mutual funds were load funds with high expense ratios. I was so keen on picking the best performing funds that I completely lost sight of one of the most important factors when picking a fund -- cost.

Consumer debt is like swimming with an anchor. We now shun consumer debt, but it took us far too long to learn this lesson.

Having too much stuff robs you of happiness and wealth. I look around our house at all the stuff we've accumulated in 20 years and all I see is lost investing opportunities and clutter.

I wonder what I'll know at 60 that I'll wish I had known at 40.

Other articles of interest at The Dough Roller:

"How I overcame my fear of lending money on Prosper.com"

"How college cost me $1.6 million"

"Enter to win 3 great investing books by Richard A. Ferri, CFA"

Comments

 

What is it about U.S. economic history that Americans don't understand?  Ask any of your frugal elders what they endured and learned about credit, excess, greed, and living beyond our means.  Yehuda is correct, we have been going down this track for quite some time.  Get your heads out of your shadowy places, and start your own fiscal responsibility plan with you and yours.  Don't wait for a bail out from the government, they've been in debt for eons. Heads bloated with power (and many times, quick money), don't understand the problem, and really, they don't need to.  Try to become a little more self-sufficient, and maybe this country will be able to do likewise.

Rule #2 and Rule #4 are financial rules to learn.  A person is foolish not to follow them.

I'm just leaving my mid-20's and for the most part, I have followed the majority of those rules for the last few years.  

I am a part-time college student but have not taken out any student loans (most of my school finances come from scholarships I apply for).

I purchased a home last year & stopped paying rent... it was almost the same amount & I nearly doubled my square footage.

I bought a year old car (fully-loaded) for $5k under the blue book value.

I store money I'm not using in 3 - 6 month CD's at around 5%.

I'm trying to be frugal... THAT'S THE HARD ONE FOR ME!

I keep my credit card debt down pretty low.

But I have one major problem... I have no substantial income.  I work full-time for about 1/3 of the income my position should pay.  my job is very flexible & that I need (& enjoy).  At the current moment, there aren't jobs I'm eligible for out there paying well.  At this rate, my savings have declined a bit each month to cover the income I'm not bringing in. Working two jobs is not an option for me at the current time so basically even though I'm doing most of the right things "savings-wise" I'm still failing.

I just keep telling myself that sometimes in this economy, it's a no-win situation.

LIMIT TAKE OUT MEALS AND EXPENSIVE DINNERS...KEEP A GOOD CAR AS LONG AS POSSIBLE...DO NOT BE BRAIN WASHED BY COMMERCIALS....INVEST IN LOW FEE INDEX FUNDS....HAVE THE MONEY TAKEN OUT OF CHECKING DIRECTLY...LIMIT CABLE AND CELL PHONE CHARGES TO THE MINIMUM.DO NOT BUY NEW.BE CONSISTENT .....MAKE A MONTHLY PLAN AND FOLLOW IT.

Solid,

When I was 20, I knew that I was a financial idiot.

Now that I'm 35, I still feel like a fool, but not an idiot.

Eight years ago I was introduced to an amortization software called TValue.   It helped me understand the effect of compounding.  Now I dollar cost average my 401k and kids college funds.  It's interesting how the simple things can make such a big difference.

Over the last few months, the market has gotten the best of me,  but I'm patient.  When the DOW hits 11,500 I plan to have some fun.  Two months ago, people would have said "11,500? You're nuts!".

Cheers

As a 23 year old soon-to-be husband, I've read, heard, and been given conflicting and confusing investing advice from all kinds of sources. No two people seem to think alike when it comes to investing. The only things that are truly in my power are to a) save as much as I can, and b) not spend like an idiot. What I do with the saved money is still the question. I'm young and should be open to risk, but, by nature, I'm relatively risk-averse. Right now, I have laddered CDs for shorter term savings (car, house, vacation) and my company's 403(b) and 401(a) (for matching) for retirement investing, but I'm basically trusting that Fidelity knows what they're doing. I figure it's better than playing the market myself with limited knowledge. I just hope I'm doing the right thing...

Yehuda is on the right track.  This article fails to mention that if you're 20, America might not even be around by the time you retire.  And if it is, it's going to be very different.  

thank you for letting me know this information, at my age of 23.

Saving time.

I come from frugal parents who provided all of our needs and a few of our wants.  The most important lession I learned and which has served me well is being able to distinguish between a need and a want and giving in to the wants occasionally, not as the norm.  Mom's best lesson can be summed up as this "Live below your means and do not assume that because your neighbor has a bigger house and a newer car that they are more well-to-do than you are.  It's not what you spend but what you save that's important."  Living by these rules, I'm sure that my husband and I, after paying 100% of 3 college educations for our sons, will be able to retire at 62 and not sacrifice our standard of living.  p.s.  We've never earned more than $100,000 in one year.

hey, you want to save some money now? unlock your home equity loan rate. I just saved $1000. with one phone call to my bank.

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