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Real life: Not every player gets to the NFL

Posted Jan 11 2008, 06:41 PM by Karen Datko
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Twentysomething Meg at AllFinancialMatters has some advice for other people of her generation: Having a job you're passionate about is highly overrated. Despite what you've been told since grade school, "not many people are qualified or talented enough to fulfill their 'passion' as a video-game tester, a fashion model, an athlete, a musician, a writer or an Internet mogul," she writes. In fact, she says, believing otherwise "can promote impatience, entitlement mentality, poor work ethic, chronic dissatisfaction, frustration and even depression." What's important, Meg says, is balance.

Having a job that pays the bills and keeps you motivated and interested is a good goal, and only part of a fulfilling life. You can find joy in family and other relationships, hobbies, travel, religion and community service.

Meg follows her own advice. She enjoys her job but it doesn't consume her. "I'm having a blast, enjoying my 20s, traveling, blogging, writing, reading, and developing meaningful relationships," she writes. "My career will unfold as it will; I'm trying not to focus on it too much."

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I agree--I find there's too much talk about "dream" jobs, but you can have a good job--and a much better life. I know those people are out there, the ones who rave about how great it is: "I never thought I'd get to do this for a living!" or "I can't believe I get paid to do this!"  It makes you think that if you aren't ecstatic while at work, you must've done something wrong.  Not every person gets the big money, the fab contract, the fame and fortune.  I think it distorts reality;  if you think you need the perfect job to be happy, you'll never be happy.  Good for you Meg!

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