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Pay down debt, reclaim your life in 2008

Posted Dec 31 2007, 08:32 AM by Donna Freedman
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Just before Christmas, an Associated Press article reported that Americans are losing the battle with credit-card debt. We're falling behind on payments, and defaults and delinquencies are increasing rapidly.

The subprime mortgage mess is partly to blame, economists say. But they also cite "America's long-standing attitude that debt -- even high-interest credit card debt -- is not a big deal."

Howard Dvorkin, the founder of a Florida credit counseling service, put it this way: "The desire of consumers to want, want, want, spend, spend, spend -- it's the fabric of our nation."

Dvorkin's words irritated the heck out of me. Unfortunately, they happen to be true.

'Yuppie food stamps'
Sometimes, credit can be mighty useful. Major medical care for an uninsured in-law went on plastic because he didn't happen to have thousands of dollars lying around loose. Of course, he's now struggling to pay it off.

I paid for my divorce with a Visa. In fact, the attorney required an active credit card on file to top off the retainer as needed. This put me in debt for some time and my, didn't it feel swell to pay it off.

These days, I buy everything with a credit card: utilities, gasoline, medicine, groceries. That's because I want the frequent-flier miles. But it's also because I can pay the card in full each month. I wouldn't charge something I couldn’t technically buy with cash.

If you're using credit "to inflate your lifestyle," as financial expert Robert Manning puts it, then you're heading for trouble. Or maybe you're already there. In an MSN article Manning, the author of "Credit Card Nation" voiced concerns over young people who seem to accept that "they will be in debt all their lives."

"Students now refer to their (credit) cards as 'yuppie food stamps'," Manning said.

Hmmm. At what point did Americans decide it was OK to become indentured servants to the likes of Capital One?

Good life, bad debt?
Sometimes I feel like a credit card Cassandra, screaming the same screams over and over: Tragedy! Financial ruin! Stop buying stuff you can't afford! But it's hard to get anyone to listen. Way too many people don't care about interest rates and how much they're actually paying for those Coach bags and wide-screen HDTVs. They want these things, and they want them now. They don't want to save up or, heaven forbid, buy something that matches their actual ability to pay.

The poorest Americans can still get new cars, televisions, computers, game systems and other big-ticket items. Of course, they're getting them on credit.

This is what the economists call "bad debt," i.e. purchases that immediately lose value (think "new car the instant you drive it off the lot") and have no chance to increase in value (think "laptop" vs. "mortgage").

And yeah, I do think that bad debt is a tragedy. It takes away our ability to direct our own lives. It reduces us to a bunch of wage slaves locked into stanchions. It keeps us working as hard as we can to make minimum payments on all the things we buy to take our minds off how hard we work.

In the film "Dead Again," the character played by an uncredited (as it were) Robin Williams mentions the "karma credit plan" -- "Buy now, pay forever."

Do you really want to pay forever for a handbag or a PDA or, good grief, for a pizza delivery?

If not, please resolve tonight to do something about it. Find a reputable credit counselor. Talk to your spouse or partner about money goals. Borrow personal finance books from the library. (Don't have a library card? Get one! They're free!) Browse the MSN Money message boards for advice, support and inspiration.

Just don't stay stuck. Don't pay forever.

Comments

 

Finally I feel like a kindred voice has spoken... my wife and I battled for YEARS to pay off credit card debts, while we watched folks around us buy big-screen TV's and furniture, all on credit.  Now, we're thankfully, ecstatically, gratefully out of debt, and living well within our means...  and it feels GREAT.

My advice to everyone out there, learned from bitter experience:  GET OUT OF DEBT, at all costs... it will save your financial sanity!

This is absolutely so true and I am a witness to this life.  I can proudly safe a lot of reading MSN Money and following through on the advice provided has helped me dig out of the trenches.  I am not fully in the clear, but well on my way. Thank you for this article of inspiration and continued reports on managing debts.  I committed the late in the year to daily read an article of advice from MSN Money and it has given me a more conscious outlook at spending and ideas on how to reclaim my life.

Donna, I just got a credit card with miles on it and I too am paying for a lot of stuff with it.  I don't know if that is a good idea or not.  I feel like it is imaginary money, and that when I spent cash for groceries I had a better idea of how much was actually going out!  Unfortunately, my favorite grocery store requires TWO forms of ID for a check, and frankly, since I shop on my way home from work on Friday, it was just easier to start pulling out the plastic.  Am I nuts to think that I am spending more when I use plastic, or do others feel that way.

Happy (Cheap!) New Year!

kate in mass.

Listen to Dave Ramsey,look for him on your radio,internet,but find him. Thank You ,Steve

Your article describes my situation exactly. I have made the resolution to climb up instead of tumbling down further. The problem is I have such a huge mountain to climb and don't know how to begin. I am self-employed and the stress of wondering if I can cover the expenses each month is killing me. I have read several financial help books, but my biggest problem is that I don't have a lot of areas to cut back on expenses and still maintain my business. HELP!

16 months ago my wife and I decided to pay our 16k CC debt off and our 32k 2nd mortgage off. We have paid off the CC and have just 12k left on the mortgage. WOW!! In 5 months we'll free up 3k per month, early retirement here I come!! BTW we do not make over 100k per year we just decided not to be slackers anymore.

Had I seen this type of article 10 years ago I might not have ruined my credit.  We've spent the past 6 years managing our credit, takes a few minutes a week.  Being able to pay bills through our bank helped me; never could find the time to write checks, then never had stamps. We have two credit cards now and only charge things we can pay off at the end of the month.  In fact, we often pay with our AMEX to get points then within days of the purchase pay for it through our banking on-line.  We are now teaching our 20 year old daughter how not to follow in our footsteps.  I hope your article helps at least one person - there is no time like the present to take control.  

Great! Yet, it seems that the credit card companies haven't read this, nor do they care. I paid off my Target cc. They now say I owe even more than my previous balance. Tried to call Target National Bank to straighten this out; nobody home, EVER. Makes people not care anymore. My score is now shot, so who cares. I did the right thing, but I'm just a number and an accumulating interest compounded monthly to them. Guess I could use my other credit card to hire someone to fight this OTHER credit card company....... Bottom Line- People quit caring.

  Thank you for your observations about credit card debt.  Can you suggest any useful steps as to how to pay these debts off.  Also, I would love to know what a debt counselor can do? I have spoken with a number of them and they always recommend a pennies on the dollar settlement.  I am committed to being debt free by the end of this year.  However, I want to do it with my integrity intact. T he money was to get through some difficult times after I lost my business.  I'm very grateful that I had something to fall back upon. These are legitimate obligations and I insist on finding a means to pay them back honorably.

 Anything that you can pass along to help me in this regard would be deeply appreciated.

 Thank you,

 Richard Kovell, Tucson AZ

Credit is the bane of humanity and the usa carries the banner.  Hard to believe the nonsense that we're better off than anyone else.  Unless buying a plethora  of unneeded unwanted unaffordable dust gathering goods qualifies to prop one's ego.

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