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A year later, still surviving and thriving

Posted Dec 07 2007, 12:30 PM by Donna Freedman
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When I wrote "Surviving (and thriving) on $12,000 a year" in January, I promised to check in at the end of 2007 to let readers know how I was doing.

I could never have imagined how that article would change my life. It led to additional assignments for MSN Money, and eventually to hosting this blog, for which I earn a part-time salary.

My life changed. My lifestyle didn't.

Frugality, finances and a little fun
I'm still living the same way: managing an apartment building to get cheaper rent, cooking most meals from scratch, riding the bus to university classes, clipping coupons, buying from yard sales and thrift shops.

However, the additional income has allowed me to clear the last of my debts, help a few relatives who are in financial straits, create an emergency fund, open an ING Direct account, start a Roth IRA and contribute to my daughter's wedding expenses.

I wrote a few small checks to charities, increased my monthly church pledge and contributed to the food bank that helped me. And right now, I'm having lots of fun shopping for a family that my sister and I adopted for Christmas.

The part-time salary is funding some R&R, too. I spent a week in Alaska -- fairly cheap since I stayed with a friend, and other friends kept treating me to meals. I'll be visiting my dad soon, another bargain since he's providing the spare room and use of his truck.

I've also been taking my daughter out to lunch once a week. We use two-for-one coupons when we can get them, naturally.

Living with intention
After a year, how am I doing? Better than I ever have, thanks, despite grammar nightmares caused by the Spanish subjunctive in adverbial clauses of interdependence. (¡Hola, Prof. Gonzalez!) I never knew life could be this busy, this overscheduled -- or this rewarding.

If I ever came into some real money, I'm not sure how much I'd change. As I wrote in my second article, "Living 'poor' and loving it," I already have everything I need and some of what I want.

Some people call that "voluntary simplicity." I think of it as living mindfully, i.e. deciding what's really important and working toward it. For me that means finishing the degree, saving for a home and helping the people I love.

Well, and possibly budgeting for a Spanish tutor to help me through the subjunctive.

Comments

 

Lately i've noticed myself complaining about how expensive it is to live in miami,fl ,   but come to think about it,  i used to live on $15,000 a year. It seems that when you have no choice you seem to find a way to do it. Unfortunately we all get caught up with this materialistic world we live in  and seem to forget the sacrifices one makes to reach ones goals.  I want to thank you for writing this blog and reminding me that there are alot of people out there that would trade ones real problems for financial trouble. Ones Health and happiness cannot be bought with cash.

I am very torn on what to think with this article. I have so much respect for Donna-we as a society let money and our bank accounts define us, and Donna finds ways not to. I don't see Donna as living broke and happy. I see it as being smart and realizing that "retail therapy",etc does not lead to happiness. I should know-I live in San Francisco, one of the most expensive cities in the world. I make $20/hour-it sounds like good money, but in SF, it's not by any means. You have to consider the rent, the nightlife (which I barely participate in), eating out, shopping. Being around all of this leads to debt, but I have no one to blame but myself. However, I am only about $1100 in debt because while I live in SF, I CHOOSE not to treat myself to things like the Ipod, high speed Internet, cable TV. I do, however, buy a lot of clothes and shoes. :)

I kind of aspire to be more like Donna-however, I do think the stress of constantly penny pinching can be a bit much. You are allowed to treat yourself to a fine meal or a pair of pants once in a while. You work hard, and you deserve it. Craigslist is a great site, but check Ebay out constantly. You could always go to thrift shops and sell items from there on Ebay (I don't think you mentioned this, unless I missed that in the article?).  The strongest part of the article is that your life changed and your lifestyle didn't. I think everyone should learn from you. We are defined by what we do, NOT what we earn. I don't see how, in San Francisco, I would ever live on 12k. So, to read this is divine inspiration. There are those in the world that love to shop, and those that love to save. I am always shopping, and barely saving $. Reading this article kind of woke me up to get smarter on money, and that I don't need a college education course to help me do so!

Hi.  I want to learn to live mindfully.  I scrimped for years when I was in law school and after law school when I was strugging to pay off loans, etc.  Suddenly, I seem to have hit calmer financial waters.  A surprising upshot is that all my old frugality seems to have gone out the window!  How do I live mindfully and CHOOSE a lifestyle that will enable me to save more, help others more and not spend so much just for the sake of convenience?

Excellent Donna. Keep up the good work! John

I only make $1200 a month and its extremely difficult making ends meet with this sort of income.  My rent for a tiny room in a housing unit is $550.  Then l have to give money for my daughter who lives with her mom.  I Can't buy clothes, gifts or anything special.  I am thinking of living in my car and using restrooms and showers at public places or friends houses.  Is this a good way to live frugal in order to have more spending flexibility?

Donna, your articles have inspired me to keep doing what I'm doing.  I've been shopping at thrift shops and garage sales for years just because I like to and now out of necessity.  I, too, am going back to school full-time to finish my degree, and I'm 46 to boot.  I felt like you were writing about me.  I wish you all the best and am looking forward to reading more of your articles.  Stay strong and thrifty . . . or as you say "mindful."

Living in poverty is nothing new to me.  I live on approximately $8600 per YEAR!  And, pay rent, phone, power, water, cable, internet and buy groceries.  Disability and Social Security are all the income I have.  Alimony?  Although I was married 24 years and had four children, I was not awarded that.  In fact, when I left my abusive marriage, I walked out with two suitcases; nothing else!  What else did I get?  Me!  I went to night classes, got my GED then started college.  After attending for two years, my elderly father fell desperately ill and I moved home to take care of him.  Do I regret that?  No!  After working for a non-profit company for many years, I got hurt on the job and was forced to retire.  Yes, life has been hard, but I am safe and reasonably happy.  Living below poverty level is the norm for many, many senirs like me but no one talks about it.  People like me are America's "dirty little secret!"

While your goals are admirable and you have some great tips on trimming your budget, I tend to agree that this seems a bit glossed over.  It would be great to see how much the real income is (adding in the babysitting dollars, MSN money, etc.) and real expenditures.  I work hard and am a single mother of two supporting them with no alimony or child support.  We get by.  Where's the magical airfare to Alaska?  I have no relatives with fat wallets.

I really enjoyed this blog.  Hopefully, you will keep it going.  I don't think the umbrella or the light was a coincidence.

Some of you are just nit-picking and not understanding the spirit of the article. As a former social worker I know first hand that most low income people DO have access to a lot of other assistance. Help from friends and a small extra job here and there hardly constitutes having any advantages. Remember, Donna said she did not get food stamps either. Llists of different orgainizations and churches who help, as well as the forms from the various utility companies and businesses for misc. needs are readily available.. Many just did not take advantage of what was available. This article was inspiring and Donna...you go girl!    

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