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A year later, still surviving and thriving

Posted Dec 07 2007, 12:30 PM by Donna Freedman
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When I wrote "Surviving (and thriving) on $12,000 a year" in January, I promised to check in at the end of 2007 to let readers know how I was doing.

I could never have imagined how that article would change my life. It led to additional assignments for MSN Money, and eventually to hosting this blog, for which I earn a part-time salary.

My life changed. My lifestyle didn't.

Frugality, finances and a little fun
I'm still living the same way: managing an apartment building to get cheaper rent, cooking most meals from scratch, riding the bus to university classes, clipping coupons, buying from yard sales and thrift shops.

However, the additional income has allowed me to clear the last of my debts, help a few relatives who are in financial straits, create an emergency fund, open an ING Direct account, start a Roth IRA and contribute to my daughter's wedding expenses.

I wrote a few small checks to charities, increased my monthly church pledge and contributed to the food bank that helped me. And right now, I'm having lots of fun shopping for a family that my sister and I adopted for Christmas.

The part-time salary is funding some R&R, too. I spent a week in Alaska -- fairly cheap since I stayed with a friend, and other friends kept treating me to meals. I'll be visiting my dad soon, another bargain since he's providing the spare room and use of his truck.

I've also been taking my daughter out to lunch once a week. We use two-for-one coupons when we can get them, naturally.

Living with intention
After a year, how am I doing? Better than I ever have, thanks, despite grammar nightmares caused by the Spanish subjunctive in adverbial clauses of interdependence. (¡Hola, Prof. Gonzalez!) I never knew life could be this busy, this overscheduled -- or this rewarding.

If I ever came into some real money, I'm not sure how much I'd change. As I wrote in my second article, "Living 'poor' and loving it," I already have everything I need and some of what I want.

Some people call that "voluntary simplicity." I think of it as living mindfully, i.e. deciding what's really important and working toward it. For me that means finishing the degree, saving for a home and helping the people I love.

Well, and possibly budgeting for a Spanish tutor to help me through the subjunctive.

Comments

 

Great article! I guess being single, having a automobile thats paid for, family members that are always giving, and a full-time job, isn't so bad after all. Maybe I should start saving. I really don't need those shoes:) God Bless.

I'm glad to see that you are now giving back to the food bank, but I must point out that in your original article, you mentioned getting food from the food  bank, and also increasing your donations to your church. It would have been better for you to use the money on food and let the truly poor, who can't even afford to make donations to church, use the food bank. By using the food bank to get food, even when you had extra money available to donate to your church, you are taking food away from those who have less money than you do. It's one thing to clip coupons, it's quite another to take advantage of a charity that is designed to help people who are not "thriving" on their limited income.

That said, I do think that the concept of living mindfully and paying attention to where our money goes is a valuable lesson, no matter how much or little money we have.

I applaud you. I think nothing is taken away by the 'extra' assistance from others except this message: if you put it all out there, and don't pretend to have money you don't have...sometimes the charity of loved ones/friends/family will be overwhelming. Its not a matter of begging but of not having a false pride and projecting a false image, and then accepting those things that come your way without begging and without embarrassment. I'm glad you are enjoying more this year- good for you!  I think that you are someone who seizes on all that is available, from other's 'trash' to the kindness of strangers, and you emphasize that being in need does not excuse a person from the obligation to help others even less fortunate. I think you are a role model to those that think that others 'owe' them a living - bravo to you!!!!!

I think you did a great job.  It doesn't matter that you went to a food bank, got help from family, or whatever.  You lived on 12K per year, and that's what your article is about.  It is a BIG struggle.  I am a single mom of three (19, 16, 10) and I was unemployed from 4/07-12/07.  I did not get welfare or unemployment, nor did I go to a food bank or anything else. I, too, am a full-time student (and I don't get any $ from that, either)  I know it was only God that made a way.  I am now employed, make $3000/month, and am STILL praising God for helping me make it.  Good for you, Donna, and good luck with Spanish.

Nice story but ...too many people assume that the higher education opens all "bank vaults" and door to a bright and prosperous future. I hope your one-year sacrifice will pay back. I am just tired of being a "poor professional" with a master degree.

After being "downsized" a few times, I decided to get my 60-credits (!) master degree (more skills, more marketable advantage, ist't it?). Survived somehow, graduated with distinction, got job in the first 8 months after graduation...and bam! downsized again. And I have a very good profession, supposedly highly in demand - corporate training, e-learning, HPT - those are my specializations.

My point is, for all those inspired by Donna's story, don't jump to proverbial "poor student's " short-term existence with a hope of a better life afterwards - it may or may not come. Just think all over.

And, I agree with Barbara's "Earning extra money and taking gifts from relatives and friends seems to take away from the title."

Wow this sounds like the stupidest thing I have ever heard of. "Live broke and you'll be happy".

Yesterday I test drove a twin turbo Porsche at 136 MPH.

No thanks.

What kind ofdegree are you going for?

I don't agree with Smick and Barbara. If it wasn't for the little extra help, I know that there is no way to be able to really "make-it". How can people be upset because you were helped a little? If people think that receiving gifts is unfair, then they should increase their gross income when it comes time to do their taxes, because everyone receives gifts and help at times. people like them have no heart. Keep up the hard work, and yes it is God who is helping you. Merry X-mas!!

The earning extra money for the blog is a bit disconcerting.  But taking gifts from relatives and friends, well that is living mindfully too!  I am sure you would do the same for them if they came to visit you (even if you take them out to dinner on a 2 for 1 ticket!) I have a good friend that I trade babysitting with so my husband and I can have time without our kids.  Finding ways to not have to spend money to have a life is part of thriving!

I also believe people can prosper on less.  I have done it all my life.  I now have two college educated sons and a daughter about to enter nursing.  My longest and most profitable income was a city janitorial job for eight years.  

But I develop my handyman skills, and pay myself for most chores around the home, including maintaining an older vehicle.  I reinvest any 'surplus cash' in tools which I started accumulating at the age of nineteen and I cherish them, never abusing tools that will look after me and my family.  

Except for a few years at the beginning, we lived off one income, and then as a single dad, we still had only my income, until each child entered the workforce and paid for their own pleasures.

I never believed we have done without, considering we had computers, video games, tvs, at least two vehicles, two homes, healthy food in the fridge and freezer, new appliances and a reserve fund, and now finally, none of us have DEBT.

My daughter bought and paid and insured her own car before she graduated highschool, working part time.  She pays her own gas and reapirs, and now buys all her own clothes, treats and outings.

Both sons have travelled internationally during breaks, while still in college.  They actually managed their own expenses during these years, so in a way, I have passed on these financial management skills.

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