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A year later, still surviving and thriving

Posted Dec 07 2007, 12:30 PM by Donna Freedman
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When I wrote "Surviving (and thriving) on $12,000 a year" in January, I promised to check in at the end of 2007 to let readers know how I was doing.

I could never have imagined how that article would change my life. It led to additional assignments for MSN Money, and eventually to hosting this blog, for which I earn a part-time salary.

My life changed. My lifestyle didn't.

Frugality, finances and a little fun
I'm still living the same way: managing an apartment building to get cheaper rent, cooking most meals from scratch, riding the bus to university classes, clipping coupons, buying from yard sales and thrift shops.

However, the additional income has allowed me to clear the last of my debts, help a few relatives who are in financial straits, create an emergency fund, open an ING Direct account, start a Roth IRA and contribute to my daughter's wedding expenses.

I wrote a few small checks to charities, increased my monthly church pledge and contributed to the food bank that helped me. And right now, I'm having lots of fun shopping for a family that my sister and I adopted for Christmas.

The part-time salary is funding some R&R, too. I spent a week in Alaska -- fairly cheap since I stayed with a friend, and other friends kept treating me to meals. I'll be visiting my dad soon, another bargain since he's providing the spare room and use of his truck.

I've also been taking my daughter out to lunch once a week. We use two-for-one coupons when we can get them, naturally.

Living with intention
After a year, how am I doing? Better than I ever have, thanks, despite grammar nightmares caused by the Spanish subjunctive in adverbial clauses of interdependence. (¡Hola, Prof. Gonzalez!) I never knew life could be this busy, this overscheduled -- or this rewarding.

If I ever came into some real money, I'm not sure how much I'd change. As I wrote in my second article, "Living 'poor' and loving it," I already have everything I need and some of what I want.

Some people call that "voluntary simplicity." I think of it as living mindfully, i.e. deciding what's really important and working toward it. For me that means finishing the degree, saving for a home and helping the people I love.

Well, and possibly budgeting for a Spanish tutor to help me through the subjunctive.

Comments

 

Donna, thanks for the articles, as I think they are inspiring for many. I also give you kudos for living the lifestyle you live, you are so extremely lucky to have the support systems you have allowing you to do the things you want. That being said I understand the negativity you are receiving from some of the posters. For countless many live on what you do and less and they have to slave away 40+ hours in jobs that are ruining their health or mental stability just to survive. As inspiring as your article is, at the same time it is frustrating to those who don't have the advantages you do of someone else paying your way. I live with a woman who has not worked more than a few months total her entire life, and yet she is given double what your title says you get and still it is not enough to satisfy her and she portrays herself as this martyr who manages to make it on so little. I work 60+ hours a week to make what you are given and I pay half of all the household expenses (mortgage, utilities), drive a 22 yr old vehicle, etc.  so I understand the frustration of killing myself to survive while watching someone (even someone who is doing some good) live off others especially when that person is choosing to live that lifestyle.  I hope you continue to do well, and I applaud you for giving back, just don't ever forget that as inspiring as your story can be you are one of the lucky ones.

Hello Donna, your blog is great. I have decided to make some choices myself. I am 49 and finishing my degree as well.  I have also made the choice of giving my house back to the bank. Not many people would agree with this, but I am in a living situation with someone I don't want to be in any more and the house is choking me. I have decided to down size my lifestyle and have a cash flow coming in. Interestingly, while I am reading this blog, I am currently dog sitting for my friend and making an extra 90.00 for three days work. Thanks for a great article.

Hi Donna

Good for you! I am doing the same thing, but I am on social security, not making as much as you but I have my house paid for and don't drive a lot so I changed the  car insurance to just "leisure" which saves a lot on the insurance bill.

If you own your own home some states let you pay quarterly property taxes which will give you a small discount instead of paying one lump sum at the end of the year.

I also do odd jobs when I can find them, driving someone to the doctor, cooking for them, etc. When I do have a odd job I take the extra money and stock up on needed items like TP, coffee filters, soap, etc.

I don't use as many paper towels, instead use old cloth towels to clean and wipe up with.

I also shop at Save-a-lot, and the Dollar stores, some of the thrift shops have half price days so I try to go then.

It works if you want it too!

Good luck !

Donna,

    I've enjoyed your articles.  However, they are from 2007.  Would you consider doing an update for 2009?  I and I am sure many, many others would like to know what your lifestyle is at this time and how you are doing.  I keep re-reading these same articles and realizing how much food, money and other things that I waste on a daily basis!  I am re-reading your articles for the third or fourth time, because I am a slow learner and still spend way too much money to afford to retire right now. (I'm 62)  

    Looking forward with great anticipation to your updated articles!

                                                              Barbara B.

I am currently unemployed and found your article to be very helpful.  I used to make a good living but am having trouble finding work.  I'm also beginning to believe that I'll have to take at least a $12,000 pay cut.  So the idea of you living on $12,000 and being happy is of great comfort to me.  I wish you the best in your college education.  Your article has given me a different perspective, thank you.

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