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A year later, still surviving and thriving

Posted Dec 07 2007, 12:30 PM by Donna Freedman

When I wrote "Surviving (and thriving) on $12,000 a year" in January, I promised to check in at the end of 2007 to let readers know how I was doing.

I could never have imagined how that article would change my life. It led to additional assignments for MSN Money, and eventually to hosting this blog, for which I earn a part-time salary.

My life changed. My lifestyle didn't.

Frugality, finances and a little fun
I'm still living the same way: managing an apartment building to get cheaper rent, cooking most meals from scratch, riding the bus to university classes, clipping coupons, buying from yard sales and thrift shops.

However, the additional income has allowed me to clear the last of my debts, help a few relatives who are in financial straits, create an emergency fund, open an ING Direct account, start a Roth IRA and contribute to my daughter's wedding expenses.

I wrote a few small checks to charities, increased my monthly church pledge and contributed to the food bank that helped me. And right now, I'm having lots of fun shopping for a family that my sister and I adopted for Christmas.

The part-time salary is funding some R&R, too. I spent a week in Alaska -- fairly cheap since I stayed with a friend, and other friends kept treating me to meals. I'll be visiting my dad soon, another bargain since he's providing the spare room and use of his truck.

I've also been taking my daughter out to lunch once a week. We use two-for-one coupons when we can get them, naturally.

Living with intention
After a year, how am I doing? Better than I ever have, thanks, despite grammar nightmares caused by the Spanish subjunctive in adverbial clauses of interdependence. (ยกHola, Prof. Gonzalez!) I never knew life could be this busy, this overscheduled -- or this rewarding.

If I ever came into some real money, I'm not sure how much I'd change. As I wrote in my second article, "Living 'poor' and loving it," I already have everything I need and some of what I want.

Some people call that "voluntary simplicity." I think of it as living mindfully, i.e. deciding what's really important and working toward it. For me that means finishing the degree, saving for a home and helping the people I love.

Well, and possibly budgeting for a Spanish tutor to help me through the subjunctive.
 

Comments

 

hi donna,

i have been lurking here for a few months, and i just want to affirm your lifestyle.

i'm also thinking about studying fulltime by june for grad school, majoring in Language Education. your example shows me that i can not only survive, but thrive with simple living.

keep it up and Merry Christmas!

Tarits

www.tarits.com

Good luck with your Spanish, yo hice el prueba final de mi clase de espanol anoche. El subjuntivo es el peor tiempo verbal, no?

Thank you for your inspiring articles Donna!

     I read your articles with some interest because I'm trying to live on less as I am  semi-retired.  It means less money but more time to do the things that matter to me.  

    Your premise of living on $12,000 and thriving is questionable if you receive assistance from family, friends, charities and have a part-time job with a salary.  Most people with lower incomes don't have all of these advantages.  For people to compare their situations I think you need to more accurately state your income and perks.  

    It is nice to hear that you are giving back to the food bank and helping others.  Sometimes when we get ahead in life we forget to turn around and reach out a hand to those behind us.  Mostly it's nice to hear you are doing well.

Loved your tip on Office Depot - a new idea I've not read anywhere!

Dear Donna,

I want you to know how appreciative I am of this blog site. Everytime I am in the verge of blowing my budget because of the things that I want rather than I need I would start reading this blog and then reality starts setting in .I'm not in any financial difficulty though but wheels can turn and its always better when you're in good shape to prepare for the downturn. Thanks for your courage.

I am a 38, married, and looking to change carreers.  Since reading your article, I have been trying to integrate some of your ideas into my lifestyle in order to go to grad school full time.  My current job pays reasonably, but the cost of living in NJ is insane which leads me to think that it is time to move.  Your article convinced me that it can be done if you put your mind to it.

Doing (almost) the same thing for the past year and a half...$18,000 a year, doing just fine, despite a few self-inflicted wounds (metaphorically speaking)...managed to pay off all my debt and have a little left over to take care of those problems...but doing pretty good...I said all that to say that it IS VERY POSSIBLE to live on limited means and do very well. Good luck Donna; keep up the good work. Feliz Navidad y prospero ano nuevo!

Now, many people who doubted it have the proof. money does NOT define whether you will be happy or not. Not long ago, I lived in one room with the rest of my family, seven in total, in a house that leaked during the rainy season.hd my first mattress when I was a teenager and dinner was a vocabulary in our household. Today, I have a good paying job, drive a nice car and my apartment doesn't leak, but I am sure I was more happy in  the older days than I am today. Keep up the good job and happy holidays.

I must agree with Smick. Earning extra money and taking gifts from relatives and friends seems to take away from the title.

This is great! Really inspiring. I like the idea of living mindfully and hope I can achieve that state. By the way, si necesitas ayuda con tu espanol, mandame un email. Te puedo ayudar, aun con el subjuntivo. Estoy aqui para servirte! :)

www.frugallawstudent.com

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