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Life without the Diaper Genie

Posted Nov 12 2007, 12:38 PM by Donna Freedman
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For all you parents and parents-to-be who are worried about money, here's a bit of modern heresy: cloth diapers.

I'm not talking about the pricey ones that can cost up to $28.50 apiece, but about plain, unfolded cotton diapers.

I used them when my daughter was born 29 years ago. I bought “slight irregulars.” Honest. The only thing wrong with them was that the blue “CURITY” stamp had run or was blurred. They cost $3.99 a dozen.

Obviously, the price has gone up. But a quick Internet search unearthed unfolded nappies for as cheap as $11.96 a dozen. You also might check Craigslist, local parent groups and -- best-case scenario -- freecycle.org.

I suggest getting at least six dozen to start. As the baby grows, so does its bladder, and you'll have to double the diapers. (I used double diapers at night right from the start.) That’s an initial investment of about $72 plus tax, and you'll also have to buy plastic pants or diaper covers.

According to an MSN article, you’ll spend about $2,000 on disposables (not counting wet wipes) until your child is toilet-trained.

It's a dirty job, but …
Yes, cloth diapers have to be changed more often. No, nobody likes dunking them in the toilet to rinse off the, uh, remnants. You can’t go for more than a few days without washing a load of diapers -- even when you add a little Borax or Clorox to the diaper pail, it develops a certain air about it.

If you don't have a washing machine handy, staying ahead of the diaper laundering might be a bit daunting. At my lowest point financially, I couldn’t afford the Laundromat, and so for about 15 months I washed diapers on a washboard. I washed all our other clothes that way, too. I hope none of you are ever that cash-strapped.

The environmental impact of disposables has been debated for years. A recent Environmental News Network article cited a three-year study that concluded both types have an impact, so it doesn't matter which kind you use. However, some people are critical of the research that was used to come to that conclusion.

I'm skeptical about it too, given how much space dirty didies take up in landfills and the chemicals that leach from them. But I'm also cognizant of how much fertilizer, pesticide and farm-machinery fuel are used to grow and harvest cotton, and how much energy it takes to launder diapers. (Air-drying them cuts that cost considerably.)

Most of all, I'm aware that disposables are the most sensible choice for some people, because they're extremely pressed for time or don't live near laundry facilities.

What price convenience?
I'm not writing this to make people feel guilty about using disposables. I'm simply pointing out that while cloth diapers aren't nearly as easy, they are doable.

People survived without Pampers for thousands of years. Without baby wipes, too -- or, God forbid, baby-wipe warmers -- but I’m losing focus here.

I’m not saying you have to do this. I’m just suggesting that if your money is really tight, cloth diapers can be a big dollar-saver.

After all, if you have 40 bucks until payday, how much of it do you want to piddle away on didies?

And besides: Would you wear paper underwear? 

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Yes, if I was going around peeing on myself, I'd much prefer to wear underwear that wicked the moisture away from my skin, rather than damp, heavy, saggy cotton.

Yeah, we tried that too, lo these many years ago when our son was born. Ohhh hateful, oh stinky, oh expensive to have a service pick up the smelly things and deliver "clean"(?) ones that had been on how many other stinky little bottoms and had been doused in what kinds of toxic chemicals, oh how miserable to try to get the stains and stink out in your own washer, load after load after load, and what grand fun then to deal with the unholy diaper rash....  

Now, we might have stuck with all that joy to hang on to our back-to-the-earthy image, which wuz the 1970s equivalent to "green," until we learned that lo! washing and disinfecting filthy diapers and producing the diaper rash cream to keep our kid from screaming all day and all night actually consumed more resources, more energy, more everything than do paper diapers, and paper diapers are all around biodegradable.

What's the point of putting yourself and your baby thru all that?

I'm sorry you had such a bad experience. Parents who are considering using cloth, however, should keep in mind that it need not be particularly unpleasant. Diapering in general is one of the grottier aspects of parenthood, whether you use cloth or paper -- but it isn't a horror show.

Incidentally, I know a woman whose kid was allergic to disposables. She tried every kind available and finally went to cloth.

I would never have used cloth diapers.  Sorry!  My kids wore only the disposables, for a wide variety of reasons, not the least of which being the yuckies factor.  I wanted to get rid of it and was not about to dip my hands in the toilet, etc.  Not to mention having those dirty ones sitting around for awhile before they went into the washer.  I guess I was lucky that I could afford all the disposable diapers I needed.

My sister and I had only cloth diapers, of course, because there were no disposables back then.  My mother saved them all and they got a lot of use:  They made fabulous burp cloths so my sister and I both used them & they were fabulous for that because they were so nice and soft to put over your shoulder when putting the baby up for the big burporama which, as you know, sometimes turns into something less pleasant.  Cloth diapers wash up nicely after one of those incidents.  There also big and absorbent enough to spare your clothing from a lot of the mess, especially if you used 2 or 3 in anticipation of the big hurl, as when the kid is sick!

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We use cloth diapers and it really doesn't take a  huge amount of time or effort.  We wash them ourselves and hang them to dry.  We have a sprayer that attaches to the toilet to spray off messes so no dunking involved there either. Since the solids are sprayed off, there is no stink in the diaper pail. The solid waste is going to a treatment plant, not leaching into the soil in a landfill.

I am using the same diapers for my 2nd son that my 1st son wore--no stains or smells.  We did invest in some nice pocket diapers so that nice warm dry fleece is next to the baby's skin (and no leaks!), but the cost savings is substantial, especially if you plan on having more than one child.

I highly recommend anyone thinking about cloth diapers to do some research.  It really is nothing like what is described here in these comments.

I raised four kids with only cloth diapers, and had up to three in cloth diapers at once, including a set of twins.  The trick is to wash them everyday.  I would run them thru the rinse cycle first, and then a hot water wash.  I used to get compliments on my beautifully white diapers hanging on the line to dry!  Cloth diapers are not nearly as awful as their reputation, and even if money was not a problem, I would use cloth again if I had to do over - but this time, hopefully, I would also own a clothes dryer!

My wife and I have been cloth diapering for 2 and 1/2 years. We have cost savings, less trash, and the benefit in having our children feel the wetness so they know when its time for a change. See Robin's post above regarding cleaning them. Robin is so right.  vh on the other hand is so wrong! Coth diapering reduces incidence of diaper rashes and many of the other problems associated with disposable diapers.

I use cloth and love them! But I do use the "expensive" fleece pocket diapers. They wick the moisture away from the baby's skin and so the baby feels as dry as if he were wearing disposables. They are easy to wash, and I put them out in the sun to dry to save on energy (the sun also bleaches them out nicely). There is very little "yuck" factor to the nice cloth diapers so easily available these days. There are tons of great brands. You can buy a potty pail to rinse out the diapers over the toilet so that you are not dunking them and getting your hands in it. The benefits to cloth are enormous and I wish more people would consider them once they see how easy they truly can be!

With my 3 kids, I used cloth diapers at home, but kept a small supply of disposables to use away from home.  Away from home, it's sometimes hard to find a way to rinse soiled diapers, then you have to have a water-(and odor!)proof bag to transport the dirty diapers.  I had a big selection of 'regular' cloth diapers and pre-folded cloth diapers with velcro closures.  I had a diaper pail with a tight fitting lid and it's really not a lot of trouble to wash, dry and fold a load of diapers every other day or so.

I rinsed soiled diapers by holding a dry corner and dunking the diaper in the toilet a time or two.  The mess usually rolls right off.

As far as disposables 'wicking moisture away' from the baby's bottom...cloth or disposable diapers should be changed as soon as they are wet or soiled.  It's kind of gross to see parents using disposable diapers as a sort of holding tank for 2 cups of urine.  Cloth feels much better on the skin and we never had trouble with diaper rash.

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