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How 'bout them apples?

Posted Oct 04 2007, 12:48 PM by Donna Freedman
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Sam’s Club thinks I deserve luxury. Specifically, the retailer thinks I deserve a pair of Granny Smith apples dipped in caramel, rolled in pecan pieces and drizzled with three kinds of chocolate. This particular luxury would cost me $18.22 -- plus shipping, since it’s available only online.

The two-piece treat was one of several items highlighted in an e-mail whose subject line read, "Luxury You Deserve At Sam’s Club." That got my attention because I’d just read a review of a new book called "Deluxe: How Luxury Lost Its Luster."

Back in the 19th century, the "luxury" trade was small and aimed squarely at European aristocrats. Now it’s big, big business and marketed to the middle class. For example, the author mentions a secretary who’s saving to buy her second Prada bag.

She’s putting money aside to buy a purse. She’s not saving for a down payment on a home, startup funds for her own business, tuition to further her education or, God forbid, retirement.

It’s a handbag, people. It carries tissues, ChapStick, subway tokens and a wallet that’s a lot lighter since luxury became not affordable -- because then it wouldn’t be luxury, see? -- but at least attainable by the common folk.

It don’t mean a thing if it ain’t got that bling
The devil may or may not wear Prada, but I betcha he bought stock in the company. A quick look online for Prada purses showed a basic leather shoulder bag for $1,240 and other styles going for upwards of $2,500. Or maybe even more; I quit looking because I felt slightly queasy.

As long as the rich people who make this stuff can convince the rest of us that we need this stuff, then the rich will get richer and the rest of us will get nowhere.

Americans are drowning in a sea of red ink, yet we continue to lust after expensive accessories, designer clothing, new cars every couple of years. "You deserve the best of everything," the ads whisper. If we don’t redecorate our McMansions, buy season tickets courtside and go to the priciest restaurants, how will people know we’ve made it?

For what it's worth
Let me answer that question with a question: Why do we think personal worth is validated by the display of net worth?
And here’s another one: Why are the people who define "success" also the ones who package and sell it? Heck, some of them even offer in-house financing.

There’s nothing wrong with wanting things. But there’s plenty wrong with letting someone else decide what you should want. Other people’s notions of the luxe life are turning us into a nation of indentured servants shackled to credit-card debt. Buy now, pay for years.

If I wanted to purchase those caramel apples, I suppose I could. But I don’t "deserve" them. It’s darned dangerous for us to start believing that because we work hard, we must cosset ourselves with ever-pricier rewards. That way madness lies. Insolvency, too.

If you want to buy them, hey, go ahead. But buy them because they sound tasty to you -- and because you can afford them. Don’t go into debt to buy two apples daubed with sugar. Or a purse stamped with someone else’s name.

Comments

 

i think a lot of you are missing the mark, who buys the prada bag? i'll answer, the consumer. it isnt the media or the advertisers who are "oh so devious" the blame lies squarely on the shoulders of the person who would rather have something right now as opposed to in the future. credit used to be taken with shame, it meant you didnt have enough money to purchase something but you needed it so much you would swallow your pride. now, credit cards are cool and hip, have now pay when?

I agree that our single biggest problems in the middle class stem from our inability to distinguish want from need, but I notice that nearly everyone uses a "passive voice" (hang on, I'm gonna go 11th grade English on you) to describe how "we're being trained" etc. In my opinion, it underscores the real root of this problem - we do not take personal responsibility for anything anymore. If we start over there, everything else can fall into place.

I LOVED ALL of your comments. And  they are all true.  $18.00 for 2 apples, how ridiculous.  Credit card frenzy has replaced flat-out laziness.  The thinking is, I don't have time to make it, I'll just buy it........and go more into debt.   My husband and I are looking at retirement next year.  Can't believe it's "HERE ALREADY."  When I was a kid my father always said he'd never by anything advertised on TV, and I always wondered why?  Now, I know and wish the rest of our world could have heeded his advice.   When our children were small (now 35 & 32) I was a stay-at-home Mom and we lived on my husband's income.  It was tough, we made it, and we NEVER bought anything that had a brand name on it.  It was just too expensive............then as it is now.  I still don't believe in advertising for a company, that should pay ME to market their product.  I made lots of the kid's clothes, and saved a lot of money.  It was nice looking stuff, and all their friends wanted me to sew for them.  Now, I'm sewing for my grandchildren, and their parents are delighted to be able to save some very hard earned money.  We took a 40th wedding anniversary trip to Rome a couple weeks ago.........after saving for it.  Had some time to kill in the airport, and looked at a store that sold Gucci leather goods..........They wanted $365 for a wallet!!!!  I could no more carry that thing than streak down mainstreet.  Obviously, the person who spends THAT KIND OF MONEY on that kind of item, has to have more money than brains, OR...........loves drowning in the debt they created to carry the credit cards in the $365 wallet.  We need to starting thinking about our needs, and less about our wants and maybe the world will be better off financially.

This is all the result of parents who fail to discipline their children or teach them to value family and friends and indulged their whining brats with every toy ever made, $150 jeans, sneakers, etc so they can be cool, new cars at 17 or 18 yrs which they promptly smash sadly killing or maiming themselves or someone else. It also goes directly to the money grubbing media pushing the images of trashy behavior as being acceptable, the sense of entitlement and the message that human life and the work ethic have no value. Please folks, give your children time, discipline, basic skills and values and a sense of wonder and curiosity about the world around them.

I bought a Prada handbag.  I found it at a thrift store for $6.00.

this is the problem between my husband and me. I see the $18 and laugh then buy the ingredients to make it myself. My husband thinks "if the neighbors buy it, I need to buy it". We actually got into a screaming fight about how I dress our kids. we have several nice thrift stores in town and I only buy the kids clothes from there (minus underoos) and he thinks that its disgusting to wear other peoples clothing.

his parents - finled for BK 2 times, foreclosed on a house, several car repos.

my parents - own their house and several homes OUTRIGHT, paid cash for their last two cars,

my mother way a stay at home mom, and amy parents made half of what his parents made.

he just doesn't see the difference

Ka-ching!  Buy "them apples" and help add another foot of fencing around the Walton's compound!

With a good budget, you may can deserve things without giving up a whole lot.

Balancing your income, you have have your apples and eat it too

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Wow, $18 *plus* shipping for two apples.  Craziness!  Great article!

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